How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?

I've just made friends with this girl through common interests, and she lives with another girl and a guy. The guy has a girlfriend so I know he's not with either of the girls. I do know that one of the girls is bi, and she kinda dresses boyish. She always refers to the other girl as ';my girl'; but I can't tell whether she means it in a girlfriend sorta way or not.


I really like the other girl but don't want to do anything that would make a fool of myself if they are a couple.How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?
Just be a grown up and politely ask them :)How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?
Say to the girl u like,';I'm feelin u and I just wanted to know if u r involved with anyone right now.'; Then if she says yes then go to the other girl and say something like,'; Yo wutz up with u and o girl?'; Be sneaky tho, cuz females can read a guy. ALso be a little more prfoessional in a playful kinda way cuz u don't wanna seem uptight or nosy.
just ask them, it's not difficult, is it?
Simply ask. You can do that in an unobtrusive way and tell them straight out, you simply wondered.
Sorry to intrude your question, but you left quite unreasoble remarks in my question (If majority of straight men r really hetero how come all male-dominate societies celebrate male-male sex %26amp; ...) and asked a question too, but you don't allow people to IM or email you.





Here's my reply:





why is it that people who post wilfully misleading or biased stuff never allow people to IM or email them?





The western society has brainwashed people's mind so much that they think without a heterosexual identity people can't reproduce. Like in the mammals, you just have to have a quickie once or twice in your life in order to reproduce. No big deal there. You don't need an entire, constant and exclusive heterosexual identity. Would nature do something that is so redandant? You're right it wouldn't and it doesn't.





There are quite enough evidences of same-sex sexual bonds in mammals, where it is mostly the primary male sexuality. E.g. in Giraffes it accounts for 93-94% of all sexual acts. And the only pairing is between two males or two females, never a male and a female.





%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;Why would you expect a male dominated society to be fiercly heterosexual? Just look at prisons%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;


Prison is a controlled situation where men do not have any choice. But when men dominate and control the society why would they define social spaces and sexual mores in such a way that go against their core 'so-claimed' heteroseuxal nature?





%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;It seems like you maybe a homosexual yourself, and rather than accept that you're different, you're trying to drag the entire male race down with you.%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;





Homosexual is an abuse for me, but yes I do believe in a strong sexual bond with another male. Homosexuality represents marginalised, femininsed and denigrated male to male sexuality.





You seem like someone who has desparate motives to not let the truth about male gender and sexuality be known to people.





Reference for injunctions against male to male sexuality:


1) Did you hear about the latest furore over Gere kissing Shikpa Shetty?





2) Love marriages are still a taboo in non-westernised India.





3) The Samoan tribe and several such tribes in Papa New Guniea don't allow sex with male and female except in certain limited days in the entire year, which is only meant for reproduction. Men who seek more sex with women are considered Queer and women who seek sex with men beyond procreation are considered Withces out to rob men of their manhood. Sex between men thrives in their society.





Would you care for more such examples I could go on and on!
Ask them.





Or just ask the guy that she lives with.
Okay, first off, you're already making assumptions based on your cultural upbringing. The guy who already has a girlfriend could possibly be in a poly relationship with more than one person. Rather than looking for ';signs'; you could communicate directly and just say something along the lines of, ';I was wondering if the two of you are in a relationship together because i'd like to ask you to a coffee date but I want to be respectful and not step on anyone's toes.';





Good luck and be careful with your heart and the hearts of others ^_~





Amiko-Gabriel
Hit on one and see what happens
well you will never know unless you ask/try to see if one will go on a date with you....ask one if they are in a relationship/not and see where it gos from there..good luck
Spend some time observing these two females together. If the one you're interested in seems to be touchy, feely with the known bisexual, then they may be together. Sometimes bisexuals and gays who aren't out of the closet won't give you any sign whatsoever that they are with someone of the same sex. In that case, you may never be able to tell strictly through body language. You may want to wait until you are better acquainted with the female friend you have an interest in before you go asking her personal questions about her sexuality. Just hang out with them and keep your eyes peeled for anything you feel is 'suspicious'.
here is a case where I would just come out and ask..I rarely suggest this, but it is called for here. Do it..no one will be offended, and if they are, so what?
flirt with the one you have a crush on.
sleep with both of them
open up to her and tell her something personal about a past relationship and if you gain her trust she'll proubly say that this one time she was dating this girl or that she was dating this guy