How can I fix things with my girl?

Okay, so this chick and I like each other. As I do not have a car and neither does she, plus with school we only occasionally see each other. Now we met up for the first time alone in a very long time! (btw she came to me). It was like 10am and we went to this park. I was really nervous and I hadn't seen her over 6 months. She had gain some weight but I didn't mind at all.





I was really nervous, I didn't know what to do or say. And I left after about 40 minutes, and we were suppose to spend at least half a day together. She said she had a friend near by that she could call. I left and it was very bad on my part. I got on msn a while later and asked how she got him. She told me she walked. From my house to heres its about a 30 minute drive and a 4 hour walk. I did not at all intend her to walk home.





She has recently lost weight and gained a new hairstyle. She currently looks a million bucks and turns heads when she walks past. I have tried apologising to her. She says she loves me but doesn't really want to meet me. I recently got her to say the reason why she was doing this. She said that I didn't like her appearance and left A.S.A.P. Which is untrue, and i loved her regardless of her weight. She also thinks that I want back because of her appearance.





Any help? I have told her how I felt and how i was cowardly etc. I am aware that she needs time to think however alot of guys would like her, and I am afraid that I will lose her.





What can I do or say? To get her to at least come round and agree to meet up with me?





If I get her to meet with me I am fairly confident we will get back together, but I feel that is a long way away, too long infact.





Any help much appreciated.How can I fix things with my girl?
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Wow, that was harsh it took alot of effort on her part to meet with you. So, you bailed leaving her to walk a really long way home. You can try to meet with her by you going to her, and giving her the chance to bail out on you, after a few minutes. If you can fix things between you two, it's going to take alot, but honestly it sounds like and she's going to just believe it's because she lost the weight and you treated her like that because of a few pounds, regardless of why you really did...you still left. She'll always wonder if you are going to bail on her if she gains a few pounds, so unless you can convince her that you will not, then maybe you should try to start as friends and see if you will get back together.
Well, it really depends on whether or not you just wanted her back because of her new look. If you did, then I would say you are not worthy of her, but if you wanted her back because you truly did miss her, let her know! Really tell her how you feel if that's the case, she will appreciate it. Did you try to contact her after the rocky walk in the park? If you didn't, and your only trying to get her back now that she looks better, even if you don't care about her new look, she won't see it that way. It might be a lost case if you can't get her to see your side...


Good luck! :)

Trying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?

Ok, I am a little interested in my best friend (girl) we have known each other for as long as I can remember and we have all ready went out. She already knows I like her and we have been flirting. I'm not sure if I should ask her back out because if she says no, then our friendship will be occurred for a while. Girls, what do you think I should do? Guys, what do you think I should do? Please write back. ThanksTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
i honestly think you should ask her if you guys can take another shot at a bf/gf relationship...if things get awkward let them be because if you are really good friends it wont change a thing thats what i did with my best guy friend and were still friends...good luckTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
sorry things didnt turn out the way you hoped...and it is probably true that best friends make the best boyfriends lol well i wish you luck on your friendship ;]

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How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?

okay so I asked this girl out...and she said no....actually she walked away but came back and apologized the next day and said she was so surprised and happy the way her life is....now a bunch of my friends(girls and guys) have told me that she really does ';like'; me but I don't know how to get into a relationship with her....she's uber cool and funny and da bomb lol....any suggestions?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
umm you cant when she dosent want to date you...?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
umm just see what things happen lol i know that sounds lame but like u cant rush things or she will freak out. lol im in 8th grade and a guy did that to me and it was overwelmin

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Friends...?????

OKay... This is really weird, I've never spilled my guts to total strangers!!! LOL Well thanks for listening guys!





Here's my situation...


My Mother, Bother Sister and I just moved to a new State, and the only people I know here are my Grandparents... We've been here for 7 weeks and I still don't have any friends... My Brother and Sister both have a ton of friends, they even have a Boy Friend and a Girl Friend... But I don't have anyone to hang out with... My siblings don't like to 'hang out' with me because I am different, I am more conservative then they are... And they are both older than me...


We are going to a church but I don't know how to make friends...


I am Home-Schooled and I haven't gotten involved in any home-schoolers activities.. I will soon but other than that how can I make some friends???


I am not very out going and I am self conscious.


But I am SO lonely and I am going crazy... My siblings are talking on the Phone with their new friends and going to the movies andFriends...?????
Ask ur mom to sign u up for extra things. Introduce urself to people at church. I have alot of friends from my church that are great frineds. Try to talk and introduce yourself to them. I hope that i can make new frinends when i move to Australia. I am moving this summer and i won't know anyone except my parents and silblings. My grandparents won't even be there.Friends...?????
Get out of the house and try. Friends will not knock on your door and introduce them self to you. You might want to try going to a regular school instead of home school there are plenty of kids there to meet.
you need to join clubs and do activities that really interest you. this builds conversation. and remember to never ever try to change yourself just to get friends. the true friends will come to you because they like you for who you are
u got one here lol.
Go to the Library and perhaps you will meet someone there.You need to try to get out a little more and meet people as they don't come to you.Walk around your neighborhood and check out things.You have to start somewhere

How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?

Ok well I want to ask this one girl (plus her friends so she'd be comfortable) to hang out with me, my friends, and some other guys and girls from school to see Shrek 3 two Saturdays from now (May 26) and go to a guy's house later to hang out.





But I need some help:





1. She is kinda shy. She doesn't really talks to guys a lot, but when me or anyone else approaches her, she seems to be fine with it and carries on a conversation until she has to get to class.





2. Should I ask her first, or her friends first? If I ask her first, she may go to her friends before I can and she may think of it as a date and make up an excuse, because as I said, she seems to be shy. But if I ask her friends first, her friends may tell her before I do, I know it's harder to turn someone down when they ask you in person themselves.





3. Should I have a friend (girl) ask her for me? I know that girls usually don't like it when other people ask them out for someone else, but as I said, she seems toHow Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
well am a girl and personally if that was me, i will like to have you be the one to ask me out, that is if you explain where do you wanna take me. And then ask her to take her friend so that way she feels more comfortable going and not taking it as a date, if that will be me I wouldn't say no to a Shrek movie.





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Be honest of how you feel about it, she'll like that. Hope you guys have fun!How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
Ask her yourself man. If she wants to go with you then she will, if she is to shy to go this time it will set the stage for future invites. Good Luck

How well do you get along with your spouse's friends or family?

How important are couple's getting along with each others friends?


I have a boyfriend of 4 years and i get along with his guy friends okay but not his guy friends girl friends or sisters. I feel bad about it, so do you think a relationship is stronger if your close to people that are closes to him. I like asking married couples because you are more mature and wiser. so thanks for answering.


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I think its important to get along with your mans family. esp his mom. i get along with his friends. some better than others. lol some i just ';deal with'; but respect that fact that they are his friends. and i get along with some of his friends girlfriends as well. there are a few (one really) that i dont like but i deal with it because i love my man and his friends are important to him. I get along WONDERFUL with his mom. Told him one time if he ever left me to get used to seeing me anyway cus i would be over visiting his mom.


but really. you dont have to be friends with his friends. they are his...but you need to respect that fact. and just deal. and yes. if you are able to become friends with his friends you do become closer. at the very least be civil. his guy friends are looking at you wondering if your good enough. his guy friends girl friends are wondering if your gonna be part of your circle and prolly talking sheit about you at first. your gonna be compared to the ';last girl'; and everyone is wondering if your gonna make their friend/family member happy.


it is easy really. if they are happy. he is happy. if he is happy your gonna be happy.How well do you get along with your spouse's friends or family?
I get alone with some of my bf friends , but as for the family some of them I can't stand. They never mind there own business I feel like I'm in high school when dealing with some of his family. So I try my best to stay away from certain ones because there is always drama. I know you asked for spouses to answer, but I've been with him for 10 yrs. Sometime I think they are crazy! try your best to keep your distance in a nice way.
I get along with my husbands friends great and he gets along with my friends great. Family, well that's a different story. They are not close so the sister in laws do not have anything to do with each other.
I don't so I don't deal with them. We are getting a divorce now so I really don't deal with them. I should have taken that into consideration from the beginning.
Well, by using a good attitude towards others, to gain what you want.

How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?

I'm a guy asking for advice for a girl. Here it goes. My friend-girl and I walk with each other after school everyday. We've recently begun having another guy walk with us. He's our friend but her and I like to walk alone. This guy that walks with us likes her also. She doesn't like him and she wants to tell him but doesn't want to hurt his feelings. To summarize in two questions, how does she tell him she wants to walk with me alone? And, how does she tell him she doesn't like him but still wants to be friends?How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?
There isn't really any way to avoid hurting this guy's feelings. Rejection, no matter how nice you are about it, always hurts. Just be open and honest about it, yet be tactful. Let him know that you don't want to hurt him and you do want to be friends, but you and this girl would like to be alone when you walk home.