How can I be popular (make more friends)?

Ok so I'm involved with drama at my school and I get friendly with people but never really become friends with them.


At school I have a close group of friends (girls, 1 guy) but I'm really jealous of the popular girls who have boyfriends and go to parties and people's houses almost every night.


So basically I want to know how to make the popular kids like me and where to meet more friends (especially boys). FYI I'm 14.How can I be popular (make more friends)?
FYI u are 14... ;) that's ur answer, wait and grow when u are supposed to grow...


and enough with boys, u're only 14! u pervert!How can I be popular (make more friends)?
Well you can't just BE popular.


There are different kinds of ';popular';


The ones where you're pretty and everyone likes you-kind of popular


and the other one where ';You're friendly and nice'; popular.





I rather be the second one if you ask me; because being popular especially the first one...you won't know who your true friends are. Maybe ppl are just hanging out with you to get their personal gain.





Just be friendly with everyone. Say hi everytime you see them. Make yourself lovable, lol.


Good Luck
You need to talk to people. I feel just like you, until I spoke up. At lunch, don't be afraid, ask to sit with a group of semi-popular. Become good friends and don't get too close though because keep moving a step higher by sitting with more popular peeps. If you want, make a list of the grades popularity, like from who is the most popularist and then down until you reach yoursel. And for boys, getting a guy isn't easy. My first boyfriend was hard, but here is a trick. Get SKINNY!! straighten your hair, and at a social, dance with a group of friends. Be FUN!! At school, talk to alot of girls and then go ahead! Get closer to the guy, guys love girls that are interactive with other girls!!! GOOD LUCK!!
I'm not being conceited or anything, but I'd say that I'm friends with the guys and I go out with them and I'm invited to the parties.





Don't try so hard, honestly. Don't TRY to look at the ';popular'; people because it gets kind of annoying if you have someone following you around. I guess you could wear the trends and stuff, like leggings and Nike sneakers and ballet flats. Join a sport or something, because that's how I met a lot of my friends.





Uhhm. DO NOT just tag along. If the popular people ask YOU to hang out, they like you. If you keep asking them and they keep on being ';busy,'; you're annoying.
I'm 14 too! I am just like you, I get sort of jealous of the ';populars'; sometimes. But when I think about it, i realize that they are just people who are SOOOO insecure with themselves. Stick with the friends you have, because they will actually make something out of their lives one day. They are true friends! The popular people will screw up there lives.





Just be yourself! How can anyone resist loving youu then??!!! i hope i helped! Good Luck :)) I bet you have a ton of friends but you just don't know it :))
girs like that are the kind who are having sex way too young, getting bad grades, and being mean to people who aren't as popular as them or have little flaws. I would suggest you don't try to get them to like you, but instead just be more friendly, fun to be around, and fashionable. There's no way people could dislike you if you were nice and fun to be around.
Man u know i'm exactly how u are right now...





Same as in i do have friends but not real popular.





But u know, there's two reason why ppl are popular. One: they're really lucky, hot, and really funny smart. Two: they been through a lot of crap and they know a lot, and they take the street everyday, laught in the face of dangers. But still i don't accept everything that happening but there's really nothing u can do about something that just is except just TRY! If u TRY u will succeed one day! Just do ur best okay? :)
Honey, most popular kids are to stuck up to allow anyone into their group unless you are loaded with money and wear all the fancy clothes. BUT, if you would still like to try, but some of the new fashions and keep talking to them. Most popular kids are really outgoing and seem to flock to out going people
all you need to do is mingle with people from different groups. don't be shy, open up to everyone around you. just don't act fake, because that gives people the wrong impression of you. those girls have a lot of confidence, and for you to have a lot of confidence you need to be happy with yourself. change up your style a little bit, be crazy and have fun. do whatever it takes to be happy! just stay true to yourself.
try and make friends with the popular kids or make more guy friends


they arent all that popular if you think bout it i used 2 think the same when i was 13 and was wasnt really known till i got into a fight but thats not how people like me u should be yourself and dont stoop 2 there level if they wanna make trouble cause their not worth a fight


trust me
Being popular isnt everything. But if you really want to be popular work out get a nice body, wear makeup, wear cute name brand clothes, try out for cheerleading and other sports, act confident like you already KNOW your popular. and be outgoing and talk to alot of people! good luck=)
Don't be jealous. I know you feel lonely, but you really can't make people like you, it has to come naturally to them. Be yourself, try to make a way to draw them to you. Popular girls are not very happy either, they get hurt too and have problems.
i don't understand why you don't like your friends... if you like your friends you shouldn't need more. the popular people may have lots of friends but its better to have close friends who you can rely on, trust, and know that they care about (opposite too!)





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Wear what all the other girls wear, smoke and get lots and lots of boyfriends.





Just kidding, I'm 14 and you don't understand how much we don't like either three of those.





Just be yourself, look as good as possible (not too much ******** make-up).
that doesn't matter. worry about doing good in school. and of you really want to make friends..join clubs or something. do something active and positive.





also if that doesn't work out..dress more scandalous and talk ****, start fights.
Um just talk to them, be super outgoing. Flirt and smile, but don't be creepy. Ask for numbers, and get to know people.
If you want to be popular, be outgoing. And don't care about what other people think and be REALLY nice. Maybe invite some popular girls over and if they say no just say 'ok'





dont worry, your time will come
Try to be nice to them and they might be nice to you or just be yourself you never know you might get friends someday.
YOU DONT NEED MORE FRIENDS...


you need friends that are like you...


and by that, you just have to explore more things you lik
ok so just ask them stuff and talk to see what you have in common and say hi every day so you know each other





hope it works
be out going


be funny talk in funny voices


be in on celeb news and other things


talk to random people


HAVE FUN
your 14 and if you need to ask people how to make peolpe like you then your a lost cause.
its hard to be yourself **** buying abercombie and hollister ur wasting ur money.
just be yourself be with your group of friends.
Be yourself.





And just be out their and social.
Just be yourself.
be more outgoing perhaps.


be funny and social.


flirt more with guys, talk to them.
Act cool. Don't let them see you're trying to be be their friend at first. Be sure to look good and make them lauph.
poeple should like you for who you are


just be your self
BE YOURSELF. damn how many times have you heard that?


ps. first thing- dont ask that question here...
get a really hottt popular guy to go out wit u works like a charm also wear popular clothe abercrombie american eagle aeropastle hollister the works