Friday, August 20, 2010

How can I fix things with my girl?

Okay, so this chick and I like each other. As I do not have a car and neither does she, plus with school we only occasionally see each other. Now we met up for the first time alone in a very long time! (btw she came to me). It was like 10am and we went to this park. I was really nervous and I hadn't seen her over 6 months. She had gain some weight but I didn't mind at all.





I was really nervous, I didn't know what to do or say. And I left after about 40 minutes, and we were suppose to spend at least half a day together. She said she had a friend near by that she could call. I left and it was very bad on my part. I got on msn a while later and asked how she got him. She told me she walked. From my house to heres its about a 30 minute drive and a 4 hour walk. I did not at all intend her to walk home.





She has recently lost weight and gained a new hairstyle. She currently looks a million bucks and turns heads when she walks past. I have tried apologising to her. She says she loves me but doesn't really want to meet me. I recently got her to say the reason why she was doing this. She said that I didn't like her appearance and left A.S.A.P. Which is untrue, and i loved her regardless of her weight. She also thinks that I want back because of her appearance.





Any help? I have told her how I felt and how i was cowardly etc. I am aware that she needs time to think however alot of guys would like her, and I am afraid that I will lose her.





What can I do or say? To get her to at least come round and agree to meet up with me?





If I get her to meet with me I am fairly confident we will get back together, but I feel that is a long way away, too long infact.





Any help much appreciated.How can I fix things with my girl?
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Wow, that was harsh it took alot of effort on her part to meet with you. So, you bailed leaving her to walk a really long way home. You can try to meet with her by you going to her, and giving her the chance to bail out on you, after a few minutes. If you can fix things between you two, it's going to take alot, but honestly it sounds like and she's going to just believe it's because she lost the weight and you treated her like that because of a few pounds, regardless of why you really did...you still left. She'll always wonder if you are going to bail on her if she gains a few pounds, so unless you can convince her that you will not, then maybe you should try to start as friends and see if you will get back together.
Well, it really depends on whether or not you just wanted her back because of her new look. If you did, then I would say you are not worthy of her, but if you wanted her back because you truly did miss her, let her know! Really tell her how you feel if that's the case, she will appreciate it. Did you try to contact her after the rocky walk in the park? If you didn't, and your only trying to get her back now that she looks better, even if you don't care about her new look, she won't see it that way. It might be a lost case if you can't get her to see your side...


Good luck! :)

Trying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?

Ok, I am a little interested in my best friend (girl) we have known each other for as long as I can remember and we have all ready went out. She already knows I like her and we have been flirting. I'm not sure if I should ask her back out because if she says no, then our friendship will be occurred for a while. Girls, what do you think I should do? Guys, what do you think I should do? Please write back. ThanksTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
i honestly think you should ask her if you guys can take another shot at a bf/gf relationship...if things get awkward let them be because if you are really good friends it wont change a thing thats what i did with my best guy friend and were still friends...good luckTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
sorry things didnt turn out the way you hoped...and it is probably true that best friends make the best boyfriends lol well i wish you luck on your friendship ;]

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How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?

okay so I asked this girl out...and she said no....actually she walked away but came back and apologized the next day and said she was so surprised and happy the way her life is....now a bunch of my friends(girls and guys) have told me that she really does ';like'; me but I don't know how to get into a relationship with her....she's uber cool and funny and da bomb lol....any suggestions?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
umm you cant when she dosent want to date you...?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
umm just see what things happen lol i know that sounds lame but like u cant rush things or she will freak out. lol im in 8th grade and a guy did that to me and it was overwelmin
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    OKay... This is really weird, I've never spilled my guts to total strangers!!! LOL Well thanks for listening guys!





    Here's my situation...


    My Mother, Bother Sister and I just moved to a new State, and the only people I know here are my Grandparents... We've been here for 7 weeks and I still don't have any friends... My Brother and Sister both have a ton of friends, they even have a Boy Friend and a Girl Friend... But I don't have anyone to hang out with... My siblings don't like to 'hang out' with me because I am different, I am more conservative then they are... And they are both older than me...


    We are going to a church but I don't know how to make friends...


    I am Home-Schooled and I haven't gotten involved in any home-schoolers activities.. I will soon but other than that how can I make some friends???


    I am not very out going and I am self conscious.


    But I am SO lonely and I am going crazy... My siblings are talking on the Phone with their new friends and going to the movies andFriends...?????
    Ask ur mom to sign u up for extra things. Introduce urself to people at church. I have alot of friends from my church that are great frineds. Try to talk and introduce yourself to them. I hope that i can make new frinends when i move to Australia. I am moving this summer and i won't know anyone except my parents and silblings. My grandparents won't even be there.Friends...?????
    Get out of the house and try. Friends will not knock on your door and introduce them self to you. You might want to try going to a regular school instead of home school there are plenty of kids there to meet.
    you need to join clubs and do activities that really interest you. this builds conversation. and remember to never ever try to change yourself just to get friends. the true friends will come to you because they like you for who you are
    u got one here lol.
    Go to the Library and perhaps you will meet someone there.You need to try to get out a little more and meet people as they don't come to you.Walk around your neighborhood and check out things.You have to start somewhere

    How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?

    Ok well I want to ask this one girl (plus her friends so she'd be comfortable) to hang out with me, my friends, and some other guys and girls from school to see Shrek 3 two Saturdays from now (May 26) and go to a guy's house later to hang out.





    But I need some help:





    1. She is kinda shy. She doesn't really talks to guys a lot, but when me or anyone else approaches her, she seems to be fine with it and carries on a conversation until she has to get to class.





    2. Should I ask her first, or her friends first? If I ask her first, she may go to her friends before I can and she may think of it as a date and make up an excuse, because as I said, she seems to be shy. But if I ask her friends first, her friends may tell her before I do, I know it's harder to turn someone down when they ask you in person themselves.





    3. Should I have a friend (girl) ask her for me? I know that girls usually don't like it when other people ask them out for someone else, but as I said, she seems toHow Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
    well am a girl and personally if that was me, i will like to have you be the one to ask me out, that is if you explain where do you wanna take me. And then ask her to take her friend so that way she feels more comfortable going and not taking it as a date, if that will be me I wouldn't say no to a Shrek movie.





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    Be honest of how you feel about it, she'll like that. Hope you guys have fun!How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
    Ask her yourself man. If she wants to go with you then she will, if she is to shy to go this time it will set the stage for future invites. Good Luck

    How well do you get along with your spouse's friends or family?

    How important are couple's getting along with each others friends?


    I have a boyfriend of 4 years and i get along with his guy friends okay but not his guy friends girl friends or sisters. I feel bad about it, so do you think a relationship is stronger if your close to people that are closes to him. I like asking married couples because you are more mature and wiser. so thanks for answering.


    1How well do you get along with your spouse's friends or family?
    I think its important to get along with your mans family. esp his mom. i get along with his friends. some better than others. lol some i just ';deal with'; but respect that fact that they are his friends. and i get along with some of his friends girlfriends as well. there are a few (one really) that i dont like but i deal with it because i love my man and his friends are important to him. I get along WONDERFUL with his mom. Told him one time if he ever left me to get used to seeing me anyway cus i would be over visiting his mom.


    but really. you dont have to be friends with his friends. they are his...but you need to respect that fact. and just deal. and yes. if you are able to become friends with his friends you do become closer. at the very least be civil. his guy friends are looking at you wondering if your good enough. his guy friends girl friends are wondering if your gonna be part of your circle and prolly talking sheit about you at first. your gonna be compared to the ';last girl'; and everyone is wondering if your gonna make their friend/family member happy.


    it is easy really. if they are happy. he is happy. if he is happy your gonna be happy.How well do you get along with your spouse's friends or family?
    I get alone with some of my bf friends , but as for the family some of them I can't stand. They never mind there own business I feel like I'm in high school when dealing with some of his family. So I try my best to stay away from certain ones because there is always drama. I know you asked for spouses to answer, but I've been with him for 10 yrs. Sometime I think they are crazy! try your best to keep your distance in a nice way.
    I get along with my husbands friends great and he gets along with my friends great. Family, well that's a different story. They are not close so the sister in laws do not have anything to do with each other.
    I don't so I don't deal with them. We are getting a divorce now so I really don't deal with them. I should have taken that into consideration from the beginning.
    Well, by using a good attitude towards others, to gain what you want.

    How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?

    I'm a guy asking for advice for a girl. Here it goes. My friend-girl and I walk with each other after school everyday. We've recently begun having another guy walk with us. He's our friend but her and I like to walk alone. This guy that walks with us likes her also. She doesn't like him and she wants to tell him but doesn't want to hurt his feelings. To summarize in two questions, how does she tell him she wants to walk with me alone? And, how does she tell him she doesn't like him but still wants to be friends?How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?
    There isn't really any way to avoid hurting this guy's feelings. Rejection, no matter how nice you are about it, always hurts. Just be open and honest about it, yet be tactful. Let him know that you don't want to hurt him and you do want to be friends, but you and this girl would like to be alone when you walk home.

    What do you say to a friend, to be girl friends with?

    i liked this girl for a few years now. but it wasent till last year when she waved to me everyday. i talked to her and had a few laughs. but i didnt like here friends. so i talked to her alone at times. this year, she hugged me real close. i thought my heart drobbed when this happened, and felt a burst of energy. we rushed to our classes together, and i asked how was her summer...and so on. so i want to ask her out. but i feel like im really going fast. what should i do?What do you say to a friend, to be girl friends with?
    Ask her for something simple - a walk in the park, an afternoon in a canoe, a bike ride. See how it goes. If it goes well, THEN is the time to book the limo, the table at the french restaurant and the box of a dozen long-stemmed roses.

    How are the teen's feelings towards thier history/past boy friend/girl friend?

    I confuse when a friend of mine keep ask me what should I do if I were in his/her situation. Should he/she tell his/her new couple that he/she still have great feelings with his/her past bf/gf? Ou...I hate to be question bout it. Please tell me what should I do?? Should I advice him/her but what the best advice?How are the teen's feelings towards thier history/past boy friend/girl friend?
    I would just be honest with them. If you don't feel comfortable giving an opinion-just tell them that you don't feel comfortable doing that.





    Or, if you are worried about giving the wrong advice you could go ahead and tell them what you would do - but say something like ';that's just my opinion and it may not fit you or your situation - so follow my advice at your own risk'; or something like that.
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  • I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?

    Ok so i have this best friend who's a girl and she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend is fun to be with, i enjoy spending time with the pair together but i want the guy to be as close to me as my best friend girl. we are already doing stuff together, and now i need some good advices from you good people so that i can have a great bond with this guy and i hope our friendship will last for a long time. thanks and God bless to those who can help me :)I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?
    First off, you have to ensure that your girl best friend is comfortable with this. Many girls worry that sometimes their boyfriend's girls-that-are-friends are more than just friends, and that can spark controversy. Just explain to her that you thought her boyfriend was a really nice guy, and you wanted to become better friends with him. Tell her that it's completely okay if she is not comfortable with this, and you will back off if need be. If she says yes, then go for it!





    As for becoming friends, you must find things that you two have in common. For example, if you both like sports, then you could suggest that the two of you go play soccer or basketball together. Maybe you share a love of drama - why not suggest you join a drama class together? You have so many options! The more time you spend with him apart from others, the tighter your bond. It's just a matter of finding qualities you share and being able to keep the conversation going. Talk to him about what he likes to do. Of course it's important to share your interests, but make sure that you do not sound totally self-absorbed. Just be confident and make sure that you both have a good time!





    Hope I've helped,


    Claire(:I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?
    Friends..........Good Friends...............Best Friends............. Relations








    This all depends from starting till Hope, Believe, Respects, Sacrifice etc.





    and all gorws not immediately and suddenly but as time passesout the SEED of LOVE and attraction grows and grows.





    So you can make him Best Friends But he/she make have the above qualities not only for you but for your families and other girls
    Friendship can't be forced. If you're already spending time together, just carry on doing that. Try to be there for them in their good and bad times, and automatically a close friendship will form. Good luck.
    You can't really make someone your best friend, close friendship just develops if both people want to be close friends. Just be friendly and see how it develops go with the flow because a forced friendship is unlikely to work.
    You can't really make someone your best friend, close friendship just develops if both people want to be close friends.


    all the best...
    better get out of them. let them enjoy. if they invite u than fine othervise...... unless you'll lose your female friend instead of getting a best friend. don't make things complicated njoy wat u have rather than forcing them
    why isn't he being a ';good'; friend enough? let the relationship grow on its own and don't shove it in his face.

    I am a very girly girl, how do i make friends with guys?

    all my close friends are girls. but now there are very few girls i can hang out with since i m doing a typical guy's major.





    it is confusing to be friends with a guy! like i dont know what to talk about. some guys are definitely not as chatty as my girl friends. also sometimes it is just too easy to flirt and i cant help myself. how do i keep it pure friendship? how do i develop a solid connection?I am a very girly girl, how do i make friends with guys?
    Stick to being a girly girl., usually men like women who are pretty feminine.I am a very girly girl, how do i make friends with guys?
    Well First of all im the biggest pris girly girly you will EVER meet i wont even open a door {some of my friends think} I do though Well anyways i talk to guys all the time!! Just be yourself fun a little retareded cute not to pushy Also well me and this guy i never talked to play would you rather thats like would you rather eat a peanut butter choclate chip hot sause ketchup sandwmich OR scream im gay when it gets dead slince!Stuipd things like that will get a guy talking
    A boy-friend is quite complicated!


    -you will tell him all your secres(who you like etc)


    -he will tell you that she also likes ....(untrue) and says he's going to help you with your crush.


    he prganises fake meetings but truly he has been sabotazing you.because he's probably starting to like you :/


    -you end up not liking him and with no chance with your crush.





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    How can I fix things with my girl?

    Okay, so this chick and I like each other. As I do not have a car and neither does she, plus with school we only occasionally see each other. Now we met up for the first time alone in a very long time! (btw she came to me). It was like 10am and we went to this park. I was really nervous and I hadn't seen her over 6 months. She had gain some weight but I didn't mind at all.





    I was really nervous, I didn't know what to do or say. And I left after about 40 minutes, and we were suppose to spend at least half a day together. She said she had a friend near by that she could call. I left and it was very bad on my part. I got on msn a while later and asked how she got him. She told me she walked. From my house to heres its about a 30 minute drive and a 4 hour walk. I did not at all intend her to walk home.





    She has recently lost weight and gained a new hairstyle. She currently looks a million bucks and turns heads when she walks past. I have tried apologising to her. She says she loves me but doesn't really want to meet me. I recently got her to say the reason why she was doing this. She said that I didn't like her appearance and left A.S.A.P. Which is untrue, and i loved her regardless of her weight. She also thinks that I want back because of her appearance.





    Any help? I have told her how I felt and how i was cowardly etc. I am aware that she needs time to think however alot of guys would like her, and I am afraid that I will lose her.





    What can I do or say? To get her to at least come round and agree to meet up with me?





    If I get her to meet with me I am fairly confident we will get back together, but I feel that is a long way away, too long infact.





    Any help much appreciated.How can I fix things with my girl?
    Wow, that was harsh it took alot of effort on her part to meet with you. So, you bailed leaving her to walk a really long way home. You can try to meet with her by you going to her, and giving her the chance to bail out on you, after a few minutes. If you can fix things between you two, it's going to take alot, but honestly it sounds like and she's going to just believe it's because she lost the weight and you treated her like that because of a few pounds, regardless of why you really did...you still left. She'll always wonder if you are going to bail on her if she gains a few pounds, so unless you can convince her that you will not, then maybe you should try to start as friends and see if you will get back together.How can I fix things with my girl?
    Well, it really depends on whether or not you just wanted her back because of her new look. If you did, then I would say you are not worthy of her, but if you wanted her back because you truly did miss her, let her know! Really tell her how you feel if that's the case, she will appreciate it. Did you try to contact her after the rocky walk in the park? If you didn't, and your only trying to get her back now that she looks better, even if you don't care about her new look, she won't see it that way. It might be a lost case if you can't get her to see your side...


    Good luck! :)
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    Trying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?

    Ok, I am a little interested in my best friend (girl) we have known each other for as long as I can remember and we have all ready went out. She already knows I like her and we have been flirting. I'm not sure if I should ask her back out because if she says no, then our friendship will be occurred for a while. Girls, what do you think I should do? Guys, what do you think I should do? Please write back. ThanksTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
    i honestly think you should ask her if you guys can take another shot at a bf/gf relationship...if things get awkward let them be because if you are really good friends it wont change a thing thats what i did with my best guy friend and were still friends...good luckTrying to be with a girl I know, but I need a few tips on how to?
    sorry things didnt turn out the way you hoped...and it is probably true that best friends make the best boyfriends lol well i wish you luck on your friendship ;]

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    How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?

    okay so I asked this girl out...and she said no....actually she walked away but came back and apologized the next day and said she was so surprised and happy the way her life is....now a bunch of my friends(girls and guys) have told me that she really does ';like'; me but I don't know how to get into a relationship with her....she's uber cool and funny and da bomb lol....any suggestions?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
    umm you cant when she dosent want to date you...?How do you take a girl on a date that rejected you....even when you KNOW she likes you?
    umm just see what things happen lol i know that sounds lame but like u cant rush things or she will freak out. lol im in 8th grade and a guy did that to me and it was overwelmin

    Friends...?????

    OKay... This is really weird, I've never spilled my guts to total strangers!!! LOL Well thanks for listening guys!





    Here's my situation...


    My Mother, Bother Sister and I just moved to a new State, and the only people I know here are my Grandparents... We've been here for 7 weeks and I still don't have any friends... My Brother and Sister both have a ton of friends, they even have a Boy Friend and a Girl Friend... But I don't have anyone to hang out with... My siblings don't like to 'hang out' with me because I am different, I am more conservative then they are... And they are both older than me...


    We are going to a church but I don't know how to make friends...


    I am Home-Schooled and I haven't gotten involved in any home-schoolers activities.. I will soon but other than that how can I make some friends???


    I am not very out going and I am self conscious.


    But I am SO lonely and I am going crazy... My siblings are talking on the Phone with their new friends and going to the movies andFriends...?????
    Ask ur mom to sign u up for extra things. Introduce urself to people at church. I have alot of friends from my church that are great frineds. Try to talk and introduce yourself to them. I hope that i can make new frinends when i move to Australia. I am moving this summer and i won't know anyone except my parents and silblings. My grandparents won't even be there.Friends...?????
    Get out of the house and try. Friends will not knock on your door and introduce them self to you. You might want to try going to a regular school instead of home school there are plenty of kids there to meet.
    you need to join clubs and do activities that really interest you. this builds conversation. and remember to never ever try to change yourself just to get friends. the true friends will come to you because they like you for who you are
    u got one here lol.
    Go to the Library and perhaps you will meet someone there.You need to try to get out a little more and meet people as they don't come to you.Walk around your neighborhood and check out things.You have to start somewhere
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  • How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?

    Ok well I want to ask this one girl (plus her friends so she'd be comfortable) to hang out with me, my friends, and some other guys and girls from school to see Shrek 3 two Saturdays from now (May 26) and go to a guy's house later to hang out.





    But I need some help:





    1. She is kinda shy. She doesn't really talks to guys a lot, but when me or anyone else approaches her, she seems to be fine with it and carries on a conversation until she has to get to class.





    2. Should I ask her first, or her friends first? If I ask her first, she may go to her friends before I can and she may think of it as a date and make up an excuse, because as I said, she seems to be shy. But if I ask her friends first, her friends may tell her before I do, I know it's harder to turn someone down when they ask you in person themselves.





    3. Should I have a friend (girl) ask her for me? I know that girls usually don't like it when other people ask them out for someone else, but as I said, she seems toHow Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
    well am a girl and personally if that was me, i will like to have you be the one to ask me out, that is if you explain where do you wanna take me. And then ask her to take her friend so that way she feels more comfortable going and not taking it as a date, if that will be me I wouldn't say no to a Shrek movie.





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    Be honest of how you feel about it, she'll like that. Hope you guys have fun!How Should I Ask Her and Her Friends to Hang Out?
    Ask her yourself man. If she wants to go with you then she will, if she is to shy to go this time it will set the stage for future invites. Good Luck

    How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?

    I'm a guy asking for advice for a girl. Here it goes. My friend-girl and I walk with each other after school everyday. We've recently begun having another guy walk with us. He's our friend but her and I like to walk alone. This guy that walks with us likes her also. She doesn't like him and she wants to tell him but doesn't want to hurt his feelings. To summarize in two questions, how does she tell him she wants to walk with me alone? And, how does she tell him she doesn't like him but still wants to be friends?How should my friend tell a guy she doesn't like him without hurting his feelings?
    There isn't really any way to avoid hurting this guy's feelings. Rejection, no matter how nice you are about it, always hurts. Just be open and honest about it, yet be tactful. Let him know that you don't want to hurt him and you do want to be friends, but you and this girl would like to be alone when you walk home.

    Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?

    I'm tying to come up with a list. I know what my answers are, but I want to get a broader opinion.


    What are the top 5-10 subjects or things you always talk about with your best girl friends ? How old are you?Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    guys, parties, clothes, accessories, other friends, people starting drama against us, rumors, TV%26amp;Movies, random things going on in the US such as gas prices and how much we hate it going up, parents%26amp; siblings, school some....





    im 20 and my friends are in the senior year of high school or college yearsWomen: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    Me and my friends can talk about anything

    If my girl friends ex-boy friend sends her a message that he ';loves and misses'; her, how should I take it?

    Is it her responsibility to ';nip it in the bud'; or is it ok that she continues to communicate with the ex, even with out encouraging him.If my girl friends ex-boy friend sends her a message that he ';loves and misses'; her, how should I take it?
    She should stop it NOW. Otherwise, he will just continue with it, and get more aggressive. If she is not stopping it, you have something to worry about.If my girl friends ex-boy friend sends her a message that he ';loves and misses'; her, how should I take it?
    Depends on how she reacted to it. But don't be that guy that gets jealous over every little thing.

    How can i make girl friends who only interested for sexual relationship ?

    guyz dont mind but my life dont allows me to make friendship with others %26amp; i feel *** that i dont know what to do, when i see couple


    i get upset , is there any search webpage that i can find girls for fun or any other way....................? dont think i am crazy but i m desperate to have a girl friendHow can i make girl friends who only interested for sexual relationship ?
    How old are you? Try a swinger club lol yea theres sites like swinglifestyle or try craigslist.How can i make girl friends who only interested for sexual relationship ?
    u wont find one girl like that no wonder your desperate most girls want to built both realtions
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  • How an important is friends in a relationship?

    How important are couple's getting along with each others friends?


    I have a boyfriend of 4 years and i get along with his guy friends okay but not his guy friends girl friends or sisters. I feel bad about it, so do you think a relationship is stronger if your close to people that are closes to him. I like asking married couples because you are more mature and wiser. so thanks for answering.


    1How an important is friends in a relationship?
    At the very least, if you don't get along, just be sure to always take the high road and be polite. Nothing good can come from starting drama with your partner's friends and their girlfriends or sisters.


    It is pretty important, for a number of reasons. However, for most people it's not a deal breaker; but it would make life funner and easier if everyone he cared about got along with you.How an important is friends in a relationship?
    Yes i definitely think that a relationship is stronger and happier if both people are close with the people their partners are close to, it just makes you feel more stable and there aren't any problems, you can be comfortable with bringing them around your family and friends and not worry about any arguments or awkward moments ! I don't think it's a huge deal if you don't get along with your boyfriends girlfriends or sisters though lol They're kind of extended contacts, i don't think its necessary for you to be buddy buddy with them, so don't worry. But if they're around just say hi, how are you %26amp; move on, just be cordial =) good luck !
    It's okay to not like your boyfriend's friends. It shouldn't matter, just don't start crap with them and you'll be fine. You really should just be focusing on the two of you and not his friends. Think of it this way: Will they matter if you decide to get married? No. (Just saying)
    Just worry about the two of you at this point. Good luck.

    How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?

    Ok well I want to ask this one girl (plus her friends so she'd be comfortable) to hang out with me, my friends, and some other guys and girls from school to go to a guy's house to hang out and then see Shrek 3 on Saturday, May 26.





    But I need some help:





    1. She is kinda shy. She doesn't really talks to guys a lot, but when me or anyone else approaches her, she seems to be fine with it and carries on a conversation until she has to get to class.





    2. Should I ask her first, or her friends first? If I ask her first, she may go to her friends before I can and she may think of it as a date and make up an excuse, because as I said, she seems to be shy. But if I ask her friends first, her friends may tell her before I do, I know it's harder to turn someone down when they ask you in person themselves.





    3. Should I have a friend (girl) ask her for me? I know that girls usually don't like it when other people ask them out for someone else, but as I said, she seems to be shy around guys.How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?
    just go up to them while they are all together be like ';Hey me and some of the guys were going to see a movie, do you all wanna come? It'll be fun'; don't amke it sound like a date but more like just a group activity. But don't get someone else ot ask her b/c then it will deff. seem like a date which may scare her off if she doesn't like you in that way right now.How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?
    Well you could always ask her and while you ask her tell her that her friends are invited to, you could have her ask a tell her that your in a hurry and won't get a chance to talk to them...so it's like inviting them all at one time and she won't think it's a date or anything...but if that's to confusing I'd say go with asking her first!
    what i would do, is, when she is with a group of her friends just invite them all at the same time


    i know its hard to get all of them, but if there is atleast 3 or 4 then ask them and say, feel free to bring other friends!
    you should ask her and her friends at the same time so it dosn't seem like your making a move on her just yet and then wen you go out you should try to talk to her as much as possible but not to full on and casually ask her out

    I want to feel normal around my girl friends not all gay but how?

    i want to know how it is to have a girl friend that i love to be around and not feel like i want a relationship with her ... i want to feel like other girls feel i dont want to be happy with who i am ... how does it work ... do you understand how are 2 girls friends ...idk i want helpI want to feel normal around my girl friends not all gay but how?
    Then don't look at them sexualy. I have tons of straight girl friends. I'm fine around them they are completely fine with me.

    Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?

    I'm trying to come up with a list. I know what my answers are, but I want to get a broader opinion.


    What are the top 5-10 subjects or things you always talk about with your best girl friends ? How old are you?Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    Husbands/boyfriends


    Other women


    Kids


    Politics


    Religion


    Careers


    Movies


    Books


    Family


    Future Plans


    GossipWomen: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    i'm 17


    they normally talk to me about dating this one guy who happens to be my bff


    i don't have many friends that are girls,i have mainly guy friends but with the girls,we talk about prom dresses,annoying teachers,cute guys in school,the senior trip to chicago,the things we did over the weekend....stuff like that
    Age: Teen





    Top Subjects (at the moment, not always)





    1. Her crush (I can't stand to hear another word about it)


    2. Who likes who (YAWN! Repeating it over and over is boring)


    3. Homework (a must)


    4. This certain girl that my best friend likes, I hate


    5. Just about people and our opinions about them (yeah I know it's mean, it's just what my best friend talks about a lot)


    6. dances (which involves the guy she likes)


    7. art


    8. sports


    9. Random Stuff


    10. my crush





    Yeah, I guess there's a lot of gossip. I try not to say anything bad about anyone, but my friend it in this gossip, who likes who mood lately, so there's nothin I can do about it.
    1. Shopping


    2. Best restaurants


    3. Movies


    4. Clothes


    5. About sex- very rarely


    6. Shoes/handbags/skin products/makup etc


    7. Talk about us getting married - what it will be like and stuff like that. This includes talking about bfs/husbands etc.


    8. We talk about friends we know or people we know.


    9. Food


    10. We talk about the good old days we've spent with each other.
    I'm 36 and my best friends are gay men. lol


    We talk about anything and everything.


    Men


    Sex


    ';Baskets';


    Nice a$$'s


    Clothes


    Music


    Anything health related


    Pets


    Weight


    Hair


    Books








    Like I said, everything. Nothing is


    taboo or off limits between us.
    1.boys of course


    2.hottest celebs


    3.teachers


    4.movies


    5.upcoming events


    6.books


    7.some gossip


    8.skool


    ;D


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    we're music people so we talk about our favorite musicians a lot.
    When me %26amp; my g/fs get together, the convo always seems to get around to penis size, orgasms %26amp; our bi-curious tendencies...
    Kids, Husbands, Work (teaching), Bowling (league), weight.
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    How to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?

    I really like this girl and i asked her out but first she said she didnt want a bf and i askd if it was tht or she wasnt into me and she said it was both and tht she was done wth younger guys so how can i stay friends with her when i still have feelings for herHow to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?
    Dude this has happened to me a million times. Sometimes its hard being young but beleive me the older you get the more you wish you could go back in time.


    If she麓s not into you, screw her, her loss.


    Sure she seems like the coolest thing in the world now, but bro, I麓ve been turned down so much I don麓t even remember half of the chicks I though were the BEST and that I HAD to have.


    I still get turned down a lot, hell why do you think people go clubbing or bar hopping sometimes you clear a whole bar with turndowns but i guarantee you, you get a lil confidence maybe a little build, and something interesting and original to talk about, 1/3 girls will atleast give you there number..hell some might even have boyfriends or aren麓t looking for one like this last chick told ya.


    Don麓t hang up on ONE girl...it麓s not worth it, you waste a lot of valuable PLAYAH time. Cuz thats what ya are a PLAYAH...just remember that, cuz once you commit parties over bro.


    Worried about the awkwardness of seeing this chick that turned you down, don麓t....just go on non-chalantly...hell if at all possible stay in the circle and find another girl, I guarantee you if this chick sees you with another girl she will change her perspective on you. It麓s weird don麓t ask me how it works but I麓ve been turned down by girls that as soon as they see me with someone else are dying to meet me, i麓ve actually had them call me. Its bizarre but true. And just so you know I麓m not some hollywood playboy I麓m just a regular dude like you, just a lil older and more experienced. You麓ll get there buddy. She don麓t wanna date younger guys..screw her somebody else will...or date younger girls (unless its illegal)....take comfort in the fact that pretty soon you麓ll be the older guy and you麓ll look back at this time period and laugh about how much of a loser you used to sound like.


    trust me, she麓ll regret turning you down one day.


    Just don麓t lose your cool and don麓t let it seem to affect you, they hate it when guys get all weird after they turn you down. just pretend like it never happened, she麓ll come around..if not, forget it move on.


    This is not the last time this will happen to you, start getting the hang of it, just remember you are the king and you make the rules.....PLAYAH!!How to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?
    okayy i am currently in the same situation except for its this guy i like but he doesnt deny liking me but wont admit it either...


    anyway its not hardd if she knows u like her she'll excpect u to flirt with her...but u can still be friends


    all my friends that r guys liked me and i turned all of em down and they still flirted with me but they got the hint that i wasnt gonna change my mind and so they went searchig for sommebody else and now they have girlfriends that they love so my best advice is try looking for somebody else u never know who u'll find :D
    First of all, if you like her and wanted a relationship, you should have been friends first. If you become better friends, you never know where that might lead. Respect her boundaries and just be friends, don't mess up what you already have. And, you don't want to hear it, but if it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be. Go to the website below and get more advise from that writer.
    simple , you diig her


    just keep it inside but care for her but be be cool about it cuz you dont want to get her anoyed with you


    just do what friends do but go to an extra extent for her and yeha shes gunna talk to other guys but your gunna have to sit threw that and help her with those guy problems at times and dnt tell her **** like oh f**k him or forget him he's not worth it


    tell her stuff that you would want someone to tell her if you were that guy becuase she will end up forgeting about him if he continues to hurt her and all you gotta do is keep trying on being a friend cuz boyfriends last for days, weeks, months, years, but friends share a bond that even might end up in marrige so if she's really worth it then keep being a good friend ! and your get you chance!
    just send her a text saying ';no hard feelings, hope we can still be friends'; ... don't push it too much or you'll scare away, try show her that you're ok with the fact that you wont be going out and are willing to be just friends. otherwise she'll always be wary of you and it'll be hard to be friends.
    dude this is hard and will cause nothing but suffering and liking her more and more. keep your space! dont text, call, hang with her often. one or two times a week is good otherwise u will develop strong feelings for her.





    when u give her her space she will start thinking how she really wants to be with u if she likes u more than a friend..get it? lucks
    well just show her that you are mature and you age will not matter. but just keep going and having fun its hard to stay friends with someone you feel for but you can do it. better to have someone as a friend then not at all.
    you can't be friends if you have feelings for her. maybe some time in the future when you move on and if you stay in touch.
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    just ask her if she still wants to be friends and she'll probably say yah but you'll have to kinda hang out wit her more often and get to know her more untill you guys go out
    just tell her you want to be friends am sure she wont mind just give her a text or email and say can we still be friends
    drop the feelings and just act like it never happened
    She probably doesnt really want to be friends with you. sorry to say it

    How do I make more friends (girls)?

    I'm in my junior year of high school and I really want to make more friends (especially girls) because I staring to get bored, not having anything to do with other people, my current friends are really busy. I want someone to talk with...to laugh with. It's just that I haven't really made many friends since the 4th grade and well...I have forgotten how to create a friendship between people. I am kinda of shy for a guy... How should I approach them? What should I say? What should I talk about?How do I make more friends (girls)?
    if you still do group things in class, talk to your group members. recognize the people in your classes that seem similar and just chat with them. little by little you will make more friends.
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  • How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?

    Ok well I want to ask this one girl (plus her friends so she'd be comfortable) to hang out with me, my friends, and some other guys and girls from school to go to a guy's house to hang out and then see Shrek 3 on Saturday, May 26.





    But I need some help:





    1. She is kinda shy. She doesn't really talks to guys a lot, but when me or anyone else approaches her, she seems to be fine with it and carries on a conversation until she has to get to class.





    2. Should I ask her first, or her friends first? If I ask her first, she may go to her friends before I can and she may think of it as a date and make up an excuse, because as I said, she seems to be shy. But if I ask her friends first, her friends may tell her before I do, I know it's harder to turn someone down when they ask you in person themselves.





    3. Should I have a friend (girl) ask her for me? I know that girls usually don't like it when other people ask them out for someone else, but as I said, she seems to be shy around guys.How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?
    just go up to them while they are all together be like ';Hey me and some of the guys were going to see a movie, do you all wanna come? It'll be fun'; don't amke it sound like a date but more like just a group activity. But don't get someone else ot ask her b/c then it will deff. seem like a date which may scare her off if she doesn't like you in that way right now.How should I ask her and her friends to hang out?
    Well you could always ask her and while you ask her tell her that her friends are invited to, you could have her ask a tell her that your in a hurry and won't get a chance to talk to them...so it's like inviting them all at one time and she won't think it's a date or anything...but if that's to confusing I'd say go with asking her first!
    what i would do, is, when she is with a group of her friends just invite them all at the same time


    i know its hard to get all of them, but if there is atleast 3 or 4 then ask them and say, feel free to bring other friends!
    you should ask her and her friends at the same time so it dosn't seem like your making a move on her just yet and then wen you go out you should try to talk to her as much as possible but not to full on and casually ask her out

    How do you act cool or make yourself okay with when you know your boyfriend is a flirt?

    My boyfriend has this girl that he's friends with but they are both naturally flirty. I don't know her and I tried to explain that I am uncomfortable with them flirting when I don't know the girl (I know other girls that I could care less with him flirting with). He says it's nothing and that it's more acting goofy than flirting but it's still flirty behavior from what I understand about it. How can I act cool or fake myself to be okay with it?How do you act cool or make yourself okay with when you know your boyfriend is a flirt?
    You shouldn't have to act any way different than you feel. If it's something that bothers you and you confront your boyfriend about it, he should try to change the behavior that is bothering you. Even if it is something small and dumb he should try to accommodate your feelings. If he doesn't than it might be better for you to move on as it is a small thing that should be easy to fix.

    I want to feel normal around my girl friends not all gay but how?

    i want to know how it is to have a girl friend that i love to be around and not feel like i want a relationship with her ... i want to feel like other girls feel i dont want to be happy with who i am ... how does it work ... do you understand how are 2 girls friends ...idk i want helpI want to feel normal around my girl friends not all gay but how?
    Then don't look at them sexualy. I have tons of straight girl friends. I'm fine around them they are completely fine with me.
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  • Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?

    I'm trying to come up with a list. I know what my answers are, but I want to get a broader opinion.


    What are the top 5-10 subjects or things you always talk about with your best girl friends ? How old are you?Women: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    Husbands/boyfriends


    Other women


    Kids


    Politics


    Religion


    Careers


    Movies


    Books


    Family


    Future Plans


    GossipWomen: What are the top subjects you always discuss with your best girl friends?
    i'm 17


    they normally talk to me about dating this one guy who happens to be my bff


    i don't have many friends that are girls,i have mainly guy friends but with the girls,we talk about prom dresses,annoying teachers,cute guys in school,the senior trip to chicago,the things we did over the weekend....stuff like that
    Age: Teen





    Top Subjects (at the moment, not always)





    1. Her crush (I can't stand to hear another word about it)


    2. Who likes who (YAWN! Repeating it over and over is boring)


    3. Homework (a must)


    4. This certain girl that my best friend likes, I hate


    5. Just about people and our opinions about them (yeah I know it's mean, it's just what my best friend talks about a lot)


    6. dances (which involves the guy she likes)


    7. art


    8. sports


    9. Random Stuff


    10. my crush





    Yeah, I guess there's a lot of gossip. I try not to say anything bad about anyone, but my friend it in this gossip, who likes who mood lately, so there's nothin I can do about it.
    1. Shopping


    2. Best restaurants


    3. Movies


    4. Clothes


    5. About sex- very rarely


    6. Shoes/handbags/skin products/makup etc


    7. Talk about us getting married - what it will be like and stuff like that. This includes talking about bfs/husbands etc.


    8. We talk about friends we know or people we know.


    9. Food


    10. We talk about the good old days we've spent with each other.
    I'm 36 and my best friends are gay men. lol


    We talk about anything and everything.


    Men


    Sex


    ';Baskets';


    Nice a$$'s


    Clothes


    Music


    Anything health related


    Pets


    Weight


    Hair


    Books








    Like I said, everything. Nothing is


    taboo or off limits between us.
    1.boys of course


    2.hottest celebs


    3.teachers


    4.movies


    5.upcoming events


    6.books


    7.some gossip


    8.skool


    ;D


    15
    hot guitarists/musicians who are actually super-duper talented


    we're music people so we talk about our favorite musicians a lot.
    When me %26amp; my g/fs get together, the convo always seems to get around to penis size, orgasms %26amp; our bi-curious tendencies...
    Kids, Husbands, Work (teaching), Bowling (league), weight.
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    boys


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    How to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?

    I really like this girl and i asked her out but first she said she didnt want a bf and i askd if it was tht or she wasnt into me and she said it was both and tht she was done wth younger guys so how can i stay friends with her when i still have feelings for herHow to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?
    Dude this has happened to me a million times. Sometimes its hard being young but beleive me the older you get the more you wish you could go back in time.


    If she麓s not into you, screw her, her loss.


    Sure she seems like the coolest thing in the world now, but bro, I麓ve been turned down so much I don麓t even remember half of the chicks I though were the BEST and that I HAD to have.


    I still get turned down a lot, hell why do you think people go clubbing or bar hopping sometimes you clear a whole bar with turndowns but i guarantee you, you get a lil confidence maybe a little build, and something interesting and original to talk about, 1/3 girls will atleast give you there number..hell some might even have boyfriends or aren麓t looking for one like this last chick told ya.


    Don麓t hang up on ONE girl...it麓s not worth it, you waste a lot of valuable PLAYAH time. Cuz thats what ya are a PLAYAH...just remember that, cuz once you commit parties over bro.


    Worried about the awkwardness of seeing this chick that turned you down, don麓t....just go on non-chalantly...hell if at all possible stay in the circle and find another girl, I guarantee you if this chick sees you with another girl she will change her perspective on you. It麓s weird don麓t ask me how it works but I麓ve been turned down by girls that as soon as they see me with someone else are dying to meet me, i麓ve actually had them call me. Its bizarre but true. And just so you know I麓m not some hollywood playboy I麓m just a regular dude like you, just a lil older and more experienced. You麓ll get there buddy. She don麓t wanna date younger guys..screw her somebody else will...or date younger girls (unless its illegal)....take comfort in the fact that pretty soon you麓ll be the older guy and you麓ll look back at this time period and laugh about how much of a loser you used to sound like.


    trust me, she麓ll regret turning you down one day.


    Just don麓t lose your cool and don麓t let it seem to affect you, they hate it when guys get all weird after they turn you down. just pretend like it never happened, she麓ll come around..if not, forget it move on.


    This is not the last time this will happen to you, start getting the hang of it, just remember you are the king and you make the rules.....PLAYAH!!How to stay friends with girl tht turned me down?
    okayy i am currently in the same situation except for its this guy i like but he doesnt deny liking me but wont admit it either...


    anyway its not hardd if she knows u like her she'll excpect u to flirt with her...but u can still be friends


    all my friends that r guys liked me and i turned all of em down and they still flirted with me but they got the hint that i wasnt gonna change my mind and so they went searchig for sommebody else and now they have girlfriends that they love so my best advice is try looking for somebody else u never know who u'll find :D
    First of all, if you like her and wanted a relationship, you should have been friends first. If you become better friends, you never know where that might lead. Respect her boundaries and just be friends, don't mess up what you already have. And, you don't want to hear it, but if it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be. Go to the website below and get more advise from that writer.
    simple , you diig her


    just keep it inside but care for her but be be cool about it cuz you dont want to get her anoyed with you


    just do what friends do but go to an extra extent for her and yeha shes gunna talk to other guys but your gunna have to sit threw that and help her with those guy problems at times and dnt tell her **** like oh f**k him or forget him he's not worth it


    tell her stuff that you would want someone to tell her if you were that guy becuase she will end up forgeting about him if he continues to hurt her and all you gotta do is keep trying on being a friend cuz boyfriends last for days, weeks, months, years, but friends share a bond that even might end up in marrige so if she's really worth it then keep being a good friend ! and your get you chance!
    just send her a text saying ';no hard feelings, hope we can still be friends'; ... don't push it too much or you'll scare away, try show her that you're ok with the fact that you wont be going out and are willing to be just friends. otherwise she'll always be wary of you and it'll be hard to be friends.
    dude this is hard and will cause nothing but suffering and liking her more and more. keep your space! dont text, call, hang with her often. one or two times a week is good otherwise u will develop strong feelings for her.





    when u give her her space she will start thinking how she really wants to be with u if she likes u more than a friend..get it? lucks
    well just show her that you are mature and you age will not matter. but just keep going and having fun its hard to stay friends with someone you feel for but you can do it. better to have someone as a friend then not at all.
    you can't be friends if you have feelings for her. maybe some time in the future when you move on and if you stay in touch.
    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    just ask her if she still wants to be friends and she'll probably say yah but you'll have to kinda hang out wit her more often and get to know her more untill you guys go out
    just tell her you want to be friends am sure she wont mind just give her a text or email and say can we still be friends
    drop the feelings and just act like it never happened
    She probably doesnt really want to be friends with you. sorry to say it

    How do I make more friends (girls)?

    I'm in my junior year of high school and I really want to make more friends (especially girls) because I staring to get bored, not having anything to do with other people, my current friends are really busy. I want someone to talk with...to laugh with. It's just that I haven't really made many friends since the 4th grade and well...I have forgotten how to create a friendship between people. I am kinda of shy for a guy... How should I approach them? What should I say? What should I talk about?How do I make more friends (girls)?
    if you still do group things in class, talk to your group members. recognize the people in your classes that seem similar and just chat with them. little by little you will make more friends.

    Do I have no right to let my boyfriend go to Malaysia with his 3 girl friends?

    I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 28. We've been together for 6 months. I already know his friends, we go out in group sometimes and I know them very well.


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    Okay here's the story..


    His 3 girl friends were having a break from work in early August; so they planned to go out of the country (MALAYSIA). My bf told me last May that he wanted to go there since he miss going out of the country. I said.. ';it's up to you'; (i dont wanna say ';yes';.. neither say straight ';no';. When girls say the words ';it's up to you'; it just means that the answer is ';no';. I know some guys dont get these lines when gilrs say it.) He said that they're only staying in one room (in 4 days)because one hotel room in Malaysia is expensive (say it's 20k in peso) They're staying in one room so they can divide it into 4, to be cheaper. -Okay fine.. It's really hard to accept all these.-


    These are my complains!


    Number 1: Yeah, I already know his friends, I trust them and I trust my boyfriend too. I know that they're not gonna do anything that would hurt me. BUT the fact that they are GIRLS and he's the only guy. (He's the only guy when they go out in gimmicks coz they dont have any COMMON guy friend that they know). It sucks to imagine.. to think that they're staying in one room for 4 days.


    Number 2: My boyfriend and I see eachother once a week (Saturdays), we go to movies, dinner date etc. But when he decided to go to Malaysia, he keeps on telling me that he has to pay his plane ticket to his friend asap. That he's becoming broke already. That if we can stay to my place during weekends so he can save money. It's okay.. There's nothing wrong in that. BUT. ';Whatever decision he makes, I dont want that we will be affected.'; Come to think of it, let's say, i said yes, okay that he can go to malaysia with her friends, fine with only 1 room. But would you still keep on telling me that.. ';Babe.. Can I just go to your house during weekends coz I'm saving up for the Malaysia trip?'; See... I already gave my left hand and still you're asking me to give my right hand..


    I really think very deep... And there's nothing I can do. NOTHING. I told him.. okay. But just one favor.. Dont ever tell me about that Malaysia crap, I dont wanna hear it. he didnt liked it, he said that he would look stupid.


    I told him that why do u have to go there? is this for your friends?


    He said, no. This is for me. I want to enjoy..


    I said.. Then Why do u have to go if you know that you u'd be broke, Why didnt you just save more money and go there in summer..


    He said, if i have that money in summer then who's gonna come with me?


    I said. You already said it to yourself, this is for you. Not for you friends.. I dont know how to tell my complain number 2 to him by not looking materialistic.. I dont want him to think that I'm only after the dates etc.. My only point is ';whatever decision he makes, i dont want that we will be affected';


    I dont really know now.. But when I asked him if I can go to movies with my guy friends, he said no. I asked him why? We're not gonna do anything there.. We're just gonna watch, we're in public.. there's nothing really wrong coz our intention is really plain good. He said, yeah you and you're friends only gonna watch. But.. What will people think of you when youre in a group of guys? I said.. What? We dont care what people will think as long as we're not doing anything wrong. Same to you right? We're in public, how bout you? You're in just one room. It's really unfair.. I mean why can't you let me...





    There.. I really dont know what to do.. Guys please help me...


    I dont know who's right and wrong.. I dont know if im the wrong one.. that i should just shut my mouth.. I'm not jealous of his friends, really.


    I cant accept it wholeheartedly.


    Should i show that it's okay, that i already accepted it like for an example he show me their pictures and i will show that im interested 'fakingly' so he wont be hurt, but im the one who's hurting inside?


    or when he's telling stories about their trip, i'll put my headphones in my ears but at least i showed my true emotions but he's the one hurt? It really bothers me everytime.. I just dont want to open this up to him.. Coz we're just gonna fight.. And i will just look like i'm the one who's wrong...Do I have no right to let my boyfriend go to Malaysia with his 3 girl friends?
    You have to trust him and when he comes back you will know if you had anything to worry about.. Send him with your love and that is all you can do.Do I have no right to let my boyfriend go to Malaysia with his 3 girl friends?
    if you trust him let him go. if not, ask him how would he feel if he were to let you go on a trip with three guys?

    Is this just a coincience? Guys do you tell girl friends much?

    One of my close friends is really good friends with my crush


    and she keeps telling me i'm turning into a female version of him


    and saying things like it's so cute how similar you are


    and you like EXACLY the same things








    she's so insistent....is he telling her to tell her this?


    guys do you get to girls through mutual friends?


    or is she just saying that because it's true...?Is this just a coincience? Guys do you tell girl friends much?
    Don't go by what other people are telling you. Go to the source yourself directly and that would be your crush.


    Maybe you are the female version of him and vise versa but you cannot keep stressing yourself over this and guessing based on what other people are telling you.


    Trust me, I had crushes I liked and then years later it came out they felt the same way about me but neither of us had the courage to tell eachother.


    Good luck!Is this just a coincience? Guys do you tell girl friends much?
    this will be a no and trust me when i say just ask his *** out. im now 29 and have run into old crushes myself and i never had the guts to just ask and you know what three of them pulled me aside and told me that back when they had it bad for me. btw im Troy im answering this on my wifes comp. so good luck hun
    How fun do you think it's going to be to be part of a threesome?? How could you sign yourself up for something so weird?? You need to find a guy who doesn't work two girls the way this guy is working the two of you....





    You are better than this...and you deserve much better....walk away FAST from both of them.... this sounds sicko...
    I think she is trying to tell you to ask him out. So GO FOR IT! you can do it.
    wow your analyzing too much.

    I love my girlfriend but I met this girl and we are like really good friends. ?

    there is this girl i like but I have a girl friend. How do I brake up with my girlfriend with out making her to mad or sad. I love my girlfriend but I met this girl and we are like really good friends. ?
    Why are you Americans so obsessed with monogamy, you can easily implement a second slave into your routine so long as you can adequately discipline her. A few swift slaps should be all the convincing that your girlfriend needs to understand the position. I love my girlfriend but I met this girl and we are like really good friends. ?
    You can't break up with a girl without making her upset, especially if you're dumping her for another girl. In your question you said you ';met'; this girl, do you mean you recently met her? If so, I wouldn't break up with your girlfriend just yet. You've known your girlfriend longer. You'd look like an idiot if you dumped her and then started dating the other chick, and it turns out she's super annoying, and you liked your first girlfriend better- because she probably wouldn't take you back. I think you need to get some loyalty qualities, you shouldn't like other girls if you have a girlfriend.
    You are going to leave her for another woman...you can't do that and not upset her. If you are going to leave her just do it and get it over with. Tell her the truth, tell her you don't have the same feelings for her anymore and think you should see other people. Don't sugar coat it and don't lead her on after the fact. End it, be done and move on.
    Tough one. I say that you should marry the one with the highest social standing, and take the other as your concubine. If either of them is a slave, the best thing to do is just save up some money and purchase them. Marcus Aurelius passed some lame laws against keeping slaves for sexual purposes, so keep it on the downlow
    tell her you feel as though life is taking you in a new direction right now. no matter how you break up with someone, if they care about you, they are most likely going to be upset.. but eventually she'll have to understand that you make the rules for your life and if she wants you to be happy.. she has to let you go.


    tell her you wish her the best!
    wow. then you wasnpt ready to be having girlfriends just date and yes you will hurt her . she deserves better if you are looking while being with her. ask yourself what would you do if she told you that? she would be called names .
    You can't. You're gonna hurt her, and piss her off. Especially when she finds out why. Jerk.
    If you loved her you wouldn't be thinking of breaking up with her for another girl. Just tell her it isn't working.
    If there is a ';but'; in there at all then you do not need to consider her a ';girlfriend';.
    The answer is you can't.
    well make sure the grl u like , likes ya bak . cuz if she dont ur screwed....and you dont love your gf if your chekin out other grls while your dating her
    there is no way.


    sorry, but there will always be resentment.


    just say to her


    i dont feel the same way about you anymore.
    don't. you love your gf and you have a new freind. keep it that way.
    stay wit ur girl. When sumthing happens den go 2 da other girl
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  • Going to the movies with x girl friends ?

    I'm going to the movies wit my x-girlfriend. Befor we dated were best friends ......I haven't seen her n about a year and I wanna impress her.....how should I do ThatGoing to the movies with x girl friends ?
    mayb u could buy her somethin at th movies 2 show tht u still care 4 her but just want 2 b friends. :)Going to the movies with x girl friends ?
    Buy popcorn, make a hole under the popcorn box, unzip your pants and put that thingy in the hole and let her reach in. :)


    lol jk, just be urself. :)
    just b ur self


    act really friendly but not to the point that it seems like u still like her


    unless you do


    just dont try to hard and well (have some fun and she will 2)


    hopefully
    Not by going to the movies ! be 25 again and act young!
    Well if that was me, I would want you to be the same person you were when we were best friends.


    =) Just be yourself, as cliche' as that is
    you don't have another girlfriend at the moment? if you don't then just have fun.





    my ex went to the movies with an ex of his that hates me because she was in ohio because she moved to sc so yea.


    he thought i didn't trust him to go and broke up with me. he was such a dick about it. we were going out and i found out and then he broke up with me and made out with her and crap. it was dumb.








    so just have fun.. ha.
    dress nice bring extra money...and be your self
    just be urself! good luck!
    be urself man


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    What can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?

    We have been friends now for 8 yrs, Her marriage has been going down hill the last few years, she comes to me because we can talk about anything and not judge. However I have fallen in love with her big time, but do not want to, and can not use that knowledge of her problems to my advantage. What to do????? Can not stop thinking of her. Her mom wants us to get to gether, but morally I can not interfere just support her for now. If she does leave him, and we get together , how can I be sure I did not manipulate the whole situation subconciously? I CARE TOO MUCH AS A FRIEND. GGRRRRR FrustratingWhat can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?
    You are in a dangerous situation. Take a big step back and stay out of her business.What can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?
    Sounds to me like you already know what to do. If you are this conflicted about it, your moral compass is trying to tell you to back off. If you want to be her friend, help her find a good marriage counselor.
    She's married, find a girl of your own.
    Wow, you do have a problem. You are not going to like this answer but here it goes. You need to back away from the relationship. Eight years is way to long for someone to be in an unhappy marriage and not do something about it. If you are in love with her then you don't want to be her counselor or just a friend. So, back away. Tell her that you have helped her as much as you can and that she needs to seek professional counseling about her marriage. With you not involved, what ever decision she makes, it will not be due to your influence. Just give her time but make it clear to her that you won't be seeing her any more as long as she is married. In the future, don't get involved with a married woman. No matter what you think men and women can't be just friends. It always leads to an attraction and the more exposure the hotter the attraction. You need to back away from this woman until she gets her life in order.
    Just keep your mouth shut, be there for her, and wait it out.
    Nothing! Wait till she is single. . .if it's meant to be it will happen.

    I'm having a whole bunch of my friends over and we want to prank my brother with makeup and stuff, how do it?

    its just my brother and a bunch of my friends (girls) here. My mom said she didnt care what we did as long as nobody gets hurt. We have tons of makeup here also. what are some good ways of making my brother wear it?I'm having a whole bunch of my friends over and we want to prank my brother with makeup and stuff, how do it?
    just have fun and put tons of makeup on him. Wait for him to fall asleep and bam! put tons and tons of makeup on him. Make sure you hide the nail polish remover so he cant take it off right away





    i did this to my little brother before and he got really mad at meI'm having a whole bunch of my friends over and we want to prank my brother with makeup and stuff, how do it?
    is he younger if so just pay him a $ or say its fun and youi will be sooooooooooooo or so so so happy if he lets you put makeup on him and hide the remover stuff and dont stop there go all out and dress him up as a totel girl and i would go with everything hair heels and the works and have him wear it for a long time but only on the weekends
    depends on how old he is. if he's younger then it would be easy. If he's older then tie him to a chair or do it when he's sleeping lol.
    When he goes to sleep. Make sure he is totally asleep and paint his nails and hide to nail polish remover.
    when your brother is sleeping put make up on him
    when he goes to sleep lightly put the makeup on no giggling until its done! find a wig to put on his head paint his fingernails and take pics my cousin and i had fun doing this to her little brother lol
    Have one of your prettiest girl friends say she'll makeout with him in the closet, with the lights off, while hes in there, have her hold him down and you all run in and attacK him with lipstick and nail polish!
    Corner him. Tie him to a chair with your girl's bras. Then force the makeup on him!





    OR you can just wait till he goes to sleep.





    OR you can dare him or something.

    A tricky situation to be in: what would you do if you want to propose to a friend (girl) but....?

    Suppose you are a part of a group of friends consisting of both boys and girls and you want to propose to a girl and don't know how she feels about you as she cares for others just as much as she does for you. If she doesn't like the idea and others in the group know about it, the way they feel about you may never be the same again and you don't want to lose friends or atleast her. She may not feel the same about me again and may be think twice before going out with me alone in the future.A tricky situation to be in: what would you do if you want to propose to a friend (girl) but....?
    I've been in this situation before. Before I said anything to the girl, I spoke to two guys in the group who were good friends of mine and managed to gather more information about her, but she ended up moving to another country so I didn't have the chance.





    It's different in your case though, just try and find out if she has any feelings for you first.





    Good luck.

    I want more guy friends.. girls have too much drama. How can I get guys to talk to me more though?

    girls cause sooo much drama, especially lately @ school. i'm sick of it i want more guy friends because they're so cool and mellow but i'm kind of a little shy. like the first couple of times i talk to you i'm really shy and nobody can tell what my crazy personality is, but after i get ONE really long conversation with a guy (or girl) i'm not shy AT ALL anymore.. and i'll be your best friend. i just have trouble with the 1st conversation. Here's a couple of guy friends I'd consider hanging out with:





    this one guy sits behind me in class he's a sophmore, i'm a freshman. but he seems really cool but i heard he might be in a gang but still i think he's nice and funny. but he doesnt really talk to people he doesnt know.. i've seen a girl try to talk to him and all he did was give 1-word responses and seem to not care much. he's in 2 of my classes and i think he's cute.. but i'm not looking for a bf,just a friend.I want more guy friends.. girls have too much drama. How can I get guys to talk to me more though?
    To make guy friends is easy.... just talk to them. say hi, how are you..... the first conversation may be hard but it will get easier as times goes on... guys are shy too sometimes so you should make the first move. i agree, girls cause sooo much drama but they're still friends.I want more guy friends.. girls have too much drama. How can I get guys to talk to me more though?
    Wow... I have no other way to put this at the moment except that, that was an extremely Freshman thing to say or even think about. You can't force friendships, they just happen. If your friends are bringing you drama, then stay away from them.
    How about just start things with ';Hi, my name is...';

    How should i feel about my girl friends past?

    Ok, Me %26amp; my girl have been together for seven years and the more we talk the more i fined out that shes been with alot of men im thinking 25 are more this was before i meet her,shes 35 im 40 And man it really makes me think like damn!!!!!!! she has always been true to me but i just cant understand way a woman could do that when i think about it it makes me think nasty.How should i feel about my girl friends past?
    Your fragile little ego needs to get over your wife's past. The past is the past. She is with you now.How should i feel about my girl friends past?
    In a woman's life her attitudes, moras, beliefs and self-esteem can change dramatically. Just remember that all of her past actions werer results of past emotions. From what you are telling me it sounds as though her emotions have changed since she has been with you, and her faithful and loving actions reflect that. Do not judge her for her past but feel proud of her, yourself, and your relationship for inspiring faithful actions in both of you, through the emotions you both feel when you are together.
    Well just think of it like this she has been through a lot and has picked you out of all the rest. She probably learned a lot about men and likes the qualities you have. So be glad she wasn't a virgin who didn't know what she wanted or how to make a man happy. Forget the bullcrap insecurity bit and just accept her as she is or she'll leave you because you are acting immature and jealous about the past. And by the way how many women have you been with in your 40yrs huh?
    DONT JUDGE HER ON HER PAST! its the worst feeling in the world. i was not exactly loyal to my past two boyfriends bbut thats becuase they were long distance and i didnt really care for them (es i know thats know excuse and it was horrible of me) but anyways my current bf is constantly worrying about that and it drives me crazy. it makes me feel like he doesnt trust me. although you have good reason to worry and everything you need to let it go. if she has gotten through it and over it then you need to also.
    Maybe she was a wild child when she was younger or she thinks of sex as just an activity two people do together. I mean, at least she has a lot of experience so she'll be an expert in bed. IMO it shouldn't matter. She is faithful, she is clean of disease, no problem. Concentrate on your relationship and try not to nip pick at little things are really don't have anything to do with your current relationship unless it REALLLY bothers you like u are afraid of your health or just think sex is more precious (belief system) But if its a pride thing... let it go.
    Excuse my bluntness, but ';how could a woman do that';... How could a woman do what exactly? Love men? Yeah, I wonder about that, too...





    Unless you want to be number 26, I suggest you mature your thinking and start appreciating the woman instead of dissing her past. It is past for a reason. Besides, after 7 years it's a bit late to start acting like a virgin teenager. Unless you are at that age when men start fantasizing about younger, ';fresher'; girls to boost their manhood.





    You say she has been true to you these 7 years. Then she obviously loves you and thinks you are worth sticking around without marriage (7 years together and she is still your girlfriend, not your wife).





    Now, to answer your question directly, one of the reasons a woman may have mutiple boyfriends is this:


    It is generally very easy for women to think they love a guy, until it becomes clear that that guy isn't worth it. Then the relationship ends. Then a new guy comes along and the woman wants love and thinks she found it. Rinse and repeat. It is so much easier to find yourself in bad relationships than good ones.


    Then one day the woman looks back and sees that instead of just one Mr. Right she found several Mr. Wrong. Out of these Mr. Wrong, some couldn't take the fact that she had previous relationships and consider her tainted, failing to realize that by doing that, they contribute to her being tainted.





    Now what you should do is forget about her past and look at the present. Ask yourself this:





    Does she really love me? Do I really love her? Is she the woman for me to spend the rest of my life with? Do we have a good relationship?





    If the answer is yes to all of these questions, then that's what matters. If not, then it's time you let your girlfriend go so she can have the chance to finally find Mr. Right.
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  • How can i get my girl friends to experiment with me sexually?

    hello, i'm a girl, and recently i've really been wanting to try messing around with another girl. i have one in mind, how should i go about trying to come onto her? thanks. (i am fully prepared for the insults coming, should be interesting to see how people react.)How can i get my girl friends to experiment with me sexually?
    Well, are you good at flirting with guys? Same thing, except it's a girl.





    IMO, I wouldn't start coming onto your friends out of the blue unless they're also into fooling around. It could really mess things up. If you want to experiment, find someone who's willing/not a friend.How can i get my girl friends to experiment with me sexually?
    truth or dare


    watch a movie with a lot of lez kissing (hotel room scene in most recent fast and furious)





    answer my questions:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





    thx
    Watch out


    as she might be straight and not want to do anything with another girl.





    You cannot force her into it..


    do you mean kissing or doing it?





    if you mean doing it, then don't try


    as she might get freaked out and stop being your friend

    How do i make a lot of girl friends this school year?

    I have everyone going for me except having lady friends to hang out with. How i look is not the problem...How can i be so that girls want to talk to me and feel at ease around me.How do i make a lot of girl friends this school year?
    you dont just want one?How do i make a lot of girl friends this school year?
    First of all, have a decent personality because girls love guys who are honest, loyal, funny and trustworthy. Sign up a club based on your interests because you would have a lot of common with a girl. If all goes well, then you will have female friends to discuss about your love problems and etc, lol
    I think you just need to act comfortable. Like introduce yourself to different girls. Chit chat and just be yourself! ha Thats extremely cheesy but true. Crack some jokes. I love guys who make me laugh it just makes converstions more exciting! Im a freshman in HS and I'm having trouble making guy friends! I realized that nothing is going to happen if i just sit back and wait for sum random guy to ask me to be friends. I need to go out socialize and be myself! Same goes for you but with girls, obviously. And i probably am making no sense (like usual) but i tried! SMILE!! :)
    well get out there and talk to more girls that go to your school . like in class , library , lunch , when ever you have the time and there is girls around .
    smile compliment dont be a creep be a gentleman(hold doors, pick up dropped items, but dont push it, if they dont want your help dont) talk with them...

    How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?

    I've just made friends with this girl through common interests, and she lives with another girl and a guy. The guy has a girlfriend so I know he's not with either of the girls. I do know that one of the girls is bi, and she kinda dresses boyish. She always refers to the other girl as ';my girl'; but I can't tell whether she means it in a girlfriend sorta way or not.


    I really like the other girl but don't want to do anything that would make a fool of myself if they are a couple.How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?
    Just be a grown up and politely ask them :)How can I tell if my 2 friends (girls) are more than just friends?
    Say to the girl u like,';I'm feelin u and I just wanted to know if u r involved with anyone right now.'; Then if she says yes then go to the other girl and say something like,'; Yo wutz up with u and o girl?'; Be sneaky tho, cuz females can read a guy. ALso be a little more prfoessional in a playful kinda way cuz u don't wanna seem uptight or nosy.
    just ask them, it's not difficult, is it?
    Simply ask. You can do that in an unobtrusive way and tell them straight out, you simply wondered.
    Sorry to intrude your question, but you left quite unreasoble remarks in my question (If majority of straight men r really hetero how come all male-dominate societies celebrate male-male sex %26amp; ...) and asked a question too, but you don't allow people to IM or email you.





    Here's my reply:





    why is it that people who post wilfully misleading or biased stuff never allow people to IM or email them?





    The western society has brainwashed people's mind so much that they think without a heterosexual identity people can't reproduce. Like in the mammals, you just have to have a quickie once or twice in your life in order to reproduce. No big deal there. You don't need an entire, constant and exclusive heterosexual identity. Would nature do something that is so redandant? You're right it wouldn't and it doesn't.





    There are quite enough evidences of same-sex sexual bonds in mammals, where it is mostly the primary male sexuality. E.g. in Giraffes it accounts for 93-94% of all sexual acts. And the only pairing is between two males or two females, never a male and a female.





    %26lt;%26lt;%26lt;Why would you expect a male dominated society to be fiercly heterosexual? Just look at prisons%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;


    Prison is a controlled situation where men do not have any choice. But when men dominate and control the society why would they define social spaces and sexual mores in such a way that go against their core 'so-claimed' heteroseuxal nature?





    %26lt;%26lt;%26lt;It seems like you maybe a homosexual yourself, and rather than accept that you're different, you're trying to drag the entire male race down with you.%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;





    Homosexual is an abuse for me, but yes I do believe in a strong sexual bond with another male. Homosexuality represents marginalised, femininsed and denigrated male to male sexuality.





    You seem like someone who has desparate motives to not let the truth about male gender and sexuality be known to people.





    Reference for injunctions against male to male sexuality:


    1) Did you hear about the latest furore over Gere kissing Shikpa Shetty?





    2) Love marriages are still a taboo in non-westernised India.





    3) The Samoan tribe and several such tribes in Papa New Guniea don't allow sex with male and female except in certain limited days in the entire year, which is only meant for reproduction. Men who seek more sex with women are considered Queer and women who seek sex with men beyond procreation are considered Withces out to rob men of their manhood. Sex between men thrives in their society.





    Would you care for more such examples I could go on and on!
    Ask them.





    Or just ask the guy that she lives with.
    Okay, first off, you're already making assumptions based on your cultural upbringing. The guy who already has a girlfriend could possibly be in a poly relationship with more than one person. Rather than looking for ';signs'; you could communicate directly and just say something along the lines of, ';I was wondering if the two of you are in a relationship together because i'd like to ask you to a coffee date but I want to be respectful and not step on anyone's toes.';





    Good luck and be careful with your heart and the hearts of others ^_~





    Amiko-Gabriel
    Hit on one and see what happens
    well you will never know unless you ask/try to see if one will go on a date with you....ask one if they are in a relationship/not and see where it gos from there..good luck
    Spend some time observing these two females together. If the one you're interested in seems to be touchy, feely with the known bisexual, then they may be together. Sometimes bisexuals and gays who aren't out of the closet won't give you any sign whatsoever that they are with someone of the same sex. In that case, you may never be able to tell strictly through body language. You may want to wait until you are better acquainted with the female friend you have an interest in before you go asking her personal questions about her sexuality. Just hang out with them and keep your eyes peeled for anything you feel is 'suspicious'.
    here is a case where I would just come out and ask..I rarely suggest this, but it is called for here. Do it..no one will be offended, and if they are, so what?
    flirt with the one you have a crush on.
    sleep with both of them
    open up to her and tell her something personal about a past relationship and if you gain her trust she'll proubly say that this one time she was dating this girl or that she was dating this guy

    How often should i text a friend(girl) that i like?

    i used to talk with one of my friends, and this girl i like on facebook, but she told me that she preferred to be contacted via text because she has no internet. so she gave me her phone number. i've had 2 conversations with her via text. they've for the most part been positive. the thing is she has a boyfriend, but they aren't very serious.





    how often should i text?How often should i text a friend(girl) that i like?
    First off ask here how it is going with her boy friend and if she say something negative talk more about it and try to get her to give details and if she say she is gone break up with him text her alot!!! And lead her to going out with her and try to help her and make sure u don't text her in the middle of he nightHow often should i text a friend(girl) that i like?
    depends on your intentions. If she has a boyfriend then probably never.





    If you are prepared to be just friends then every now and again is just fine-





    What do you mean by positive? She gave her number out to you so she is prepared for you to use it but don't make her regret it- don't make life difficult for her and her boyfriend even if they are not serious its not your palce.


    If they break up then go for it.





    Like I said if you are genuinely interested in being her friend then brief casual texts every now and again is great. Ask her about herself and maybe even catch up in a group situation.
    Hmm start a conversation with her maybe 2 or 3 times a day 1 round the morning other around 3 and the next one maybe 6 or 7ish. This is good because its not too much and not too little. You may get lucky and have the conversation with her all day. Happens.





    Haha, I dunno doing this with girls that have boyfriends usually works for me hahh.
    well don't text her just because your bored...girls don't like it when a guys is clingy. and i really hate it when i stop texting somebody and they keep sending messages like HELLO,ARE YOU THERE,and WAKE UP. those get on my nerves allot and make me not want to txt them back...so i would text her in the morning and have a convo and in the evening! hope this helps!
    Well since she has a boyfriend you don't want to txt too much or else u might seem clingy but you could probably txt her like every couple days just enough to create small talk so I hope that helped
    As long as you have ideas of what to talk about and have minutes and battery on your phone send as much as you want!
    week and half from the last call don't call too much.

    Im a tomb-boy and dont have very many girl friends?

    im 14 and all my life has mostly been about sports


    i have mostly guys as bestfriends


    and maybe one or two girl friends


    there is this girl that lives behind me.. she is very popular and pretty.


    i am bestfriends with her older brother.. but she doesnt seem to notice me


    how do i grab her attention and become friends with her without it being too awkwarrd.Im a tomb-boy and dont have very many girl friends?
    Be loud around her, not show off or anything.


    Start a conversation with her, maybe about your hobbies and what you do.


    Talk alot, but dont be annoying. I mean make conversations up, dont be quit and make the scene awkward.





    Im 15 and leaving school in less than 3 months and going to college xD


    Good luck in shi*ty high school, you'll need it!

    Wednesday, August 18, 2010

    How can i get my friends (girls) into skateboarding/blading?

    i want to be able to go out with some/a mate(s) to go skate but non of them seem very interested





    i really want to keep skating coz i love it and i want to be able to go to some spots and get some on vid


    plz helpHow can i get my friends (girls) into skateboarding/blading?
    You are probably going to need to invite them to try it out and offer to teach them.





    I would suggest the skates as a first attempt and you are probably going to need to offer to borrow or rent skates of the proper size. If you have local roller rinks, they may rent the skates for use there. If you get one to try it and she likes it, she (assuming that there is no romantic angle involved) may help you lobby the others into trying it.





    Keep talking to them about how fun it is to go cruising around and the things you can see while on the skates.





    I started when a couple female friends of mine started skating to loose weight. They quit when they got married but I kept skating and have a lot of skaters that I hang out with.


    That was 12 years ago and I still have a great time skating.How can i get my friends (girls) into skateboarding/blading?
    man i dont know. but your friends are so lucky! i would love to learn, but i have no one to teach me. i love snowboarding, but none of my friends know how, and those who have learned gave up. and that really pissed me off. but ugh. thats so cool. i wanna learn!
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    im a guy,, but the way i always do it, is just like touch her arm and get her attention for like 20 seconds when you know all the girls are listening, say something that will make her day, like you look really pretty today or something smile and walk away,


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