Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you know and what do you do when you friend thats a boy wants to be more than friends?

a boy that's your friend he likes you but you like him just as a friend but then you start to like him. should you stay just friends or fall in love with him. we go to the same school he is in my L.A class. my friends say we should be boy friend girl friend. he is really funnyHow do you know and what do you do when you friend thats a boy wants to be more than friends?
AAAAH! This has got to be the most confusing, complicated situation ever and trust me, I have a lot of experience dealing with it (for my friends mostly). First,, you cannot make yourself 'fall in love'. Annoying as it is, it just doesn't work that way. If you do not have true feelings for this guy and you go out with him it is almost guarunteed not to work out well. If you do have feeling for this guy, which it sounds like you might, then go for it, just be careful because sometimes when one person's feeling are much stronger than the others thhey end up getting hurt. In he end, you will have to decide what is more important, a friend or a boyfriend. This is really only a question you know how to answer because it completely depends on your guys relationship. If you really only want to be friends, tell him kindly but firmly. Expect for him to be upset, this is inevitable, and understand that your relationship might not be perfect for a while but eventually you two will become great friends again and you will be glad that you didn't ruin it by dating him when you didn't want to. Whatever decision you make, understand that it is your decision, not his or your friend's. Good luck honey an I wish you all the best.How do you know and what do you do when you friend thats a boy wants to be more than friends?
Well the options are kinda obvious, if you do love him, then say yes. If you don't , then say no. But if you say yes, don't take it to fast. Start out small and easy. Don't go randomly around hugging him whenever you see him.
well,if you both like each other go for it be for someone else do
You are still in school. All of you are going through a passing phase in life and its just temporary, girl friend boy friend, every one want to experiment and explore and its curiosity.Being friends is the best thing, better than anything else. Be friends with everyone, avoid heartbreak and pain and sorrow.

How many guys out there would tell their girl friends/wives to adapt certain looks?

if the girl is already gorgeous and gets hit on alot.. would u still tell her to do that?.. I'm game with telling her to put something on every once in a while.. but do u guys do that excessively?.. in other words.. do you critisize her looks in a ';metrosexual'; manner?How many guys out there would tell their girl friends/wives to adapt certain looks?
well i wouldnt tell her to change the way she does her hair, or make-up, etc....


but if you want her to wear something you like just tell her ';you should put that -dress-(or what it is you want her to wear) you wore last time you looked cute'; or pick out something and tell her ';why dont you wear this tonight? it looks cute';How many guys out there would tell their girl friends/wives to adapt certain looks?
hell no.





my girl can dress however the **** she wants.





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NO! that's not a good thing to do unless you are reallllllly close!

How to seduce a girl ? What do girls like ?

I like a girl very much . She is my classmate . We have been in the same class for 6 years . But we do not talk much . We only talk if it is some class work . No general talks . She always sits with her best friend (girl) . I don't know what she thinks of me . Considering I am of shy nature tell me how can I win her heart . Till now she cannot be called even a friend . It will be grateful if you provide some help . Thank you . ^_^How to seduce a girl ? What do girls like ?
Why you used word seduce ? It is wrong in your context. Remember first you need to form friendship with the girl, understand her views , attitudes. Win over her mind. Help her. Be caring . loving and passionate with her. Then may be you can get into second phase of relationship where you may share more personal events and get closer emotionally. Then if everything gets ok you may think of dating and then lifetime commitment. Remember relationship with woman is a process not an event. It is not one night stand. Woman is not sex object but a life time partner.How to seduce a girl ? What do girls like ?
Well, first you gotta see if she likes you, or is, in any way, interested in a relationship with you.





Just say hi. That's how it all starts. If you like her, talk to her. What I'd do is become friends with her friend, but not in an attraction way, just friends. Then you can get closer to her and start talking to her and make her one of your friends. You may get to know her, you may not. If you don't, it's okay there are plenty of lucky girls out there for you. If you do get to know her, you'll be able to see if you really want her in your life or she's just a crush.





Hope this helps.


Good luck ;)
You can start by saying ';hi'; to her when you see her in the halls or other places - you don't even have to strike up a conversation, just a quick ';hi'; or ';hey'; and a smile and then be on your way. I've also found that, being shy myself, it's easier to communicate with an unfamiliar person through impersonal communication such as texting, IM'ing, etc. While not really viable in the long run, it can help her warm up to your personality and hopefully get to know you better.
What you are not even close with the girl and planning to seduce her!! OMG, check what the word seduce means! Anyways, if you really want to attract the girl, go and start talking with her properly, show her that you care for her, share with her each others likings and disliking. Remember that in the initial stages it's your words and behaviour that impresses a girl. All the best!
Well, in the first place, I am pretty sure you are misusing the word Seduce. I don't think that is what you mean. You want to attract her to being more than just casual friends. Just start being more forward towards here and talking to her more to get things going in the direction you would like to see them move.
just start talkin 2 her wid a simple 'hi' or simply compliment her by sayin 'hey u got a nice watch'.u shud b friends wid her n if its diff. try 2 b friends wid her best friend n try 2 know wat she feels about u.if u r lucky den she'll definitely lyk u.best of luck
take her for a long drive a romantic dinner take her home gift her a sexy night dress gentle kisses hugs will definately seduce her.
tell her she is pretty and compliment her!
okay first off seduce means to entice into sexual partnership.

so u mean how to make her like u and go on a date.

1) start talking to her. start bye just saying hi and after awhile get into conversations w/her.

2) find out her interests and wat she likes. learn about them just in case. then when she brings them up u know about them and can relate.

3) befriend her and her friend. befriend her friend first.

4) now we r getting close. take steps 1-3 slow. stay calm and try to act as urself.

5) start hanging out with her outside of school.

6) if ur a teenager (guessing u r) then keep ur hair and face clean. be nice. keep jokes to minimum the crude ones r. stay fit look nice.

7) now get to kno her and be close to her. take ur time its gonna take atleast 2 months.

8) finally she will notice u. her attitude or way she acts toward u will change. wait 1 week and then ask her to go to the movie with u. should be on a friday night.

9) take it slow. it might not work out but there are other girls. wish u luck!

How do u if your bff girl likes you? we've been friends for a longtime.?

Im not sure im really shy to say i lke her. We\ve been friends for like ever ( 5 years ) and we are like the closest guy and girl friend ever. And i em really bad to asking someone out. and i need some advices to be sure i know. or something that i could make her fall in love with me even more even though i know she has a crush on me.How do u if your bff girl likes you? we've been friends for a longtime.?
say that you really like her and you;ve been waiting for her for a longtime and you need to know if she also like you.
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  • It is considered ';wrong'; that a girl and boy split the money half half when they go out to eat?

    Because i was talking to my friends (girls) and they all say how its the worst thing you can do, i see nothing wrong with that.


    What do you guys think?


    agree or not?It is considered ';wrong'; that a girl and boy split the money half half when they go out to eat?
    Itws called going Dutch, and there is really nothing wrong with it. But if its a first date, it is usually much better for the guy to cover it.It is considered ';wrong'; that a girl and boy split the money half half when they go out to eat?
    In my day it was called 'going dutch' or a 'dutch date'.


    A lot of students with limited income (allowances from parents, likely) did it.


    I think you just make arrangements about splitting the tab ahead of time.


    Feminists believe(d) it to demonstrate independence.
    women fought for equality, right?
    If they're going out as friends, I see that as okay.
    No, in fact, it's pretty much expected after the first date.


    I bet your friends don't get many dates!

    How can i get to know if this girl is trying to punish me or not?

    i had a misunderstand with this girl(technically i've ruined evry thing ), we are in college,nearly every time i'm near to her like in lectures, it's like if she talk to her friends - girls - about me, and act like, if she want to punish me, but i keep feel like if there is hope, and it's like if she is lost-angry of what we've been to-, what is the thing that can prove to me the real feelings she have.How can i get to know if this girl is trying to punish me or not?
    why don't you just ask her or clear the misunderstanding.How can i get to know if this girl is trying to punish me or not?
    talk to her about it because it takes one person to cause a problem but it takes two to fix that problem get the story from her and try and clear everything up try not to get anger or mad and don't yell that'll just make things worse be understanding and put yourself in her shoes and tell her at you're sorry and that you know she's mad but you still want to be friends and that you understand if you(she) wants her space for the time but i hope that we can still be friends! if a guy screwed things up with me i would want him to do that for me because it would mean alot to me if he did because it shows that he messed up but he's willing to fix it!
    Yo a girl is just incredibly freaking complicated and annoying to figure out :\ but if you feel like there is hope just keep trying and try to make her smile that way she won't be that angry at you and all but keep trying never loose hope.
    Let me start off by saying that if your in college,and you cant type? How is that possible.But whatever.What do you mean shes trying to punish you?**
    Play her favourite song to her or send the lyrics in a text to her, saying you love her at the end of the text
    just tell her how you feel... write a poem, sing a song or just tell her
    I am sorry but before you try to get with a girl, you need to study grammar. This was frustrating to read.





    Hit spell check next time buddy.
    Ask her about how she feels straightforwardly.
    Well this is a twisted world so i wouldnt doubt if she did want to punish you.
    I dont think girls think like that. If she is, shes not worth your time man.
    Just talk to her in you should know from there.
    How are you in college? Do you know how to use a spell check? I couldn't understand anything you asked.
    maybe she doesn't like the way you type :)

    My husband has been commenting on a friends little girl?

    My husband has not wanted children in the past, but lately he has been commenting on children. My best friend has a little girl a little over one year old and he was fascinated with her. He kept smiling and talking with her and after dinner he was commenting on how cute and smart she was.





    Do you think that he may be starting to want kids?





    How can I continue to encourage this?My husband has been commenting on a friends little girl?
    Sounds like he may be thinking about it. Ask him and try to keep it simple :) Best Wishes!My husband has been commenting on a friends little girl?
    Don't make the mistake I made. Sit down and discuss having children.


    Lack of communication destroys a marriage.