Friday, August 20, 2010

I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?

Ok so i have this best friend who's a girl and she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend is fun to be with, i enjoy spending time with the pair together but i want the guy to be as close to me as my best friend girl. we are already doing stuff together, and now i need some good advices from you good people so that i can have a great bond with this guy and i hope our friendship will last for a long time. thanks and God bless to those who can help me :)I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?
First off, you have to ensure that your girl best friend is comfortable with this. Many girls worry that sometimes their boyfriend's girls-that-are-friends are more than just friends, and that can spark controversy. Just explain to her that you thought her boyfriend was a really nice guy, and you wanted to become better friends with him. Tell her that it's completely okay if she is not comfortable with this, and you will back off if need be. If she says yes, then go for it!





As for becoming friends, you must find things that you two have in common. For example, if you both like sports, then you could suggest that the two of you go play soccer or basketball together. Maybe you share a love of drama - why not suggest you join a drama class together? You have so many options! The more time you spend with him apart from others, the tighter your bond. It's just a matter of finding qualities you share and being able to keep the conversation going. Talk to him about what he likes to do. Of course it's important to share your interests, but make sure that you do not sound totally self-absorbed. Just be confident and make sure that you both have a good time!





Hope I've helped,


Claire(:I want this guy to be my best friend! but how? we are already good friends?
Friends..........Good Friends...............Best Friends............. Relations








This all depends from starting till Hope, Believe, Respects, Sacrifice etc.





and all gorws not immediately and suddenly but as time passesout the SEED of LOVE and attraction grows and grows.





So you can make him Best Friends But he/she make have the above qualities not only for you but for your families and other girls
Friendship can't be forced. If you're already spending time together, just carry on doing that. Try to be there for them in their good and bad times, and automatically a close friendship will form. Good luck.
You can't really make someone your best friend, close friendship just develops if both people want to be close friends. Just be friendly and see how it develops go with the flow because a forced friendship is unlikely to work.
You can't really make someone your best friend, close friendship just develops if both people want to be close friends.


all the best...
better get out of them. let them enjoy. if they invite u than fine othervise...... unless you'll lose your female friend instead of getting a best friend. don't make things complicated njoy wat u have rather than forcing them
why isn't he being a ';good'; friend enough? let the relationship grow on its own and don't shove it in his face.

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