Wednesday, August 18, 2010

What sort of things can you say to a girl that is upset?

I have a friend (girl) who rings me up at night on the phone to see how my day went an so on.. but every now and again she rings me because her boyfriend has upset her and she cries on the phone to me. what sort of things should i say to her to cheer her up, bearing in mind that i really like her and she really likes me to, but nothing will happen whilst she is still with her boyfriend ?What sort of things can you say to a girl that is upset?
Tell her that she shouldn't have a boyfriend shouldn't upset her like that and that maybe she would be better off with someone else. (Like you for example!) If they fight alot, chances are that he's going to end up hurting her more by breaking up with her. Let her know that everything is okay and that you're going to be there for her. Maybe try making her laugh? Thats what my best guy friend does whenever i'm upset. Or, tell her a memory of a girlfriend you might've once had and how she said things to you that would upset you and you finally just ended it. Mention to her that she might want to talk to her BF about why he's upsetting her and maybe he'll stop.





Good Luck with helping your friend and with the whole relationship ordeal :p.What sort of things can you say to a girl that is upset?
It's good to see that you are a good friend who will always be there when she is going through difficult times of her life. Take it as an advantage because it can bring you closer to her. You may want to ask her a question, ';Does your boyfriend of yours make you happy?'; I am pretty sure that she will say no. Eventually, she will break him up.





Reason is, if you do ask her out in a movie or other special occasion while she is on the relationship status, her boyfriend is most likely to beat you up.

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