Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Is it awkward hanging out with your date's ';girl'; friends for the first time?

It would be awkward for someone like me, who has a little trouble meeting new people. If it is awkward, how do I overcome this, and what would be some good things to leave a good first impression?


Any past stories or opinions are appreciated. Thanks, all.Is it awkward hanging out with your date's ';girl'; friends for the first time?
Well, to anybody, it will seem awkward hanging out with their date's friends for the first time because one, you don't know any of them. You may have fears that you guys won't click. You fear that they'll dislike you. You fear the silence. You fear just about everything. But actually, if you stop fearing and just be yourself, and include a lil witty humor in you, it definitely will be alright.





My experience way way years ago (I'm older now most definitely), I went out jamming with my date's friends and I was being so shy. I talked only when they talked till the extend my date had to urm, ';Hey girls, talk to my date here.'; Haha! What a memory! You wouldn't want people to create an impression of you like that, wouldn't you?





So I suggest, to leave good impression, you have to be guarded by alot of life experiences. Whatever they talked about, you have to be sure to have news of it, or experiences. Perhaps you can share some interesting stories with them. Get to know them. Bond them. ASK them questions. Don't be afraid. Be curious. Just go ahead and shoot any friendly questions to them.





That will be a good impression of you because you bond. :)Is it awkward hanging out with your date's ';girl'; friends for the first time?
is it going to be just you and a bunch of girls? hopefully not.





I think the best way to meet your girlfriends friends is to get in good with their boyfriends... to me its always easier to talk about guy stuff than girl stuff...





if you can find a few guys, easy things to talk about are football (college or pro), fantasy football, the Olympics - basketball team, phelps, gold medal count, baseball - yanks not making the playoffs, movies - dark knight are usually good topics for guys...





if you have no choice but to interact with new girls, ask about them what they do, do they like it, talk about how you are looking for a good movie to take your girlfriend too see if they have advice, Olympics, talk about their pets...





good luck holmes.
oh girls are very clever lol but if other girls are going then just be yourself, dont be too cheesey that is a big ';lets go to the toilt and slag him off story!!!


Dnt try to always have your arm around her or want to touch her, back off slightly just be casual and talk to them as well, take a friend with you would be a much better idea!
there are a couple of things you must keep in mind





1. they like your girlfriend so remember be nice even if you hate them





2. don't ';like'; them too much otherwise you may end up falling for them too !!! :-/





3. be your self with them and don't try to change yourself for them.





good luck!!!
Yes, its their excuse to discreetly interrogate you and make sure your good bread for their friend. Beware, love. BEWARE!! %26gt;:3
Don't worry about, all the girls friends I've met have been lovely and accomodating. They'll like you, some of them a little too much. But all will be good you'll see!
Don't swear, be nice, compliment them on their clothes/shoes.

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