What can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?

We have been friends now for 8 yrs, Her marriage has been going down hill the last few years, she comes to me because we can talk about anything and not judge. However I have fallen in love with her big time, but do not want to, and can not use that knowledge of her problems to my advantage. What to do????? Can not stop thinking of her. Her mom wants us to get to gether, but morally I can not interfere just support her for now. If she does leave him, and we get together , how can I be sure I did not manipulate the whole situation subconciously? I CARE TOO MUCH AS A FRIEND. GGRRRRR FrustratingWhat can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?
You are in a dangerous situation. Take a big step back and stay out of her business.What can I do ? Falling in love with a friend (girl) who is in a lonely marriage.?
Sounds to me like you already know what to do. If you are this conflicted about it, your moral compass is trying to tell you to back off. If you want to be her friend, help her find a good marriage counselor.
She's married, find a girl of your own.
Wow, you do have a problem. You are not going to like this answer but here it goes. You need to back away from the relationship. Eight years is way to long for someone to be in an unhappy marriage and not do something about it. If you are in love with her then you don't want to be her counselor or just a friend. So, back away. Tell her that you have helped her as much as you can and that she needs to seek professional counseling about her marriage. With you not involved, what ever decision she makes, it will not be due to your influence. Just give her time but make it clear to her that you won't be seeing her any more as long as she is married. In the future, don't get involved with a married woman. No matter what you think men and women can't be just friends. It always leads to an attraction and the more exposure the hotter the attraction. You need to back away from this woman until she gets her life in order.
Just keep your mouth shut, be there for her, and wait it out.
Nothing! Wait till she is single. . .if it's meant to be it will happen.