How can I make friends with black girls? >.<?

Well, I'm mixed (black %26amp; white) I have light skin, and nice hair, and I'm a very nice person. But all the black girls at my school hate me. Like literally. They are so rude to me....and I know it's because of my color, because they always say to me ';Do u think u cute with your light skin? Cuz you aint!'; It's really hurtful. I want to be friends with them, and I try to talk with them, but they just cuss at me. I really hate going to school because all they do is say rude things to me and push me around. I really don't know what to do. It's ruining my High School experience to the point where I don't even want to go to school anymore %26gt;.%26lt; What can I say to them to make them like me and stop being so rude?





Btw-The only reason I want to make nice with them is because then they might stop being to mean to me :(How can I make friends with black girls? %26gt;.%26lt;?
The only thing that you can do is be yourself and be comfortable with who you are. There is nothing that you can do or say that will change their opinion unless there is some movie moment where you have to help them and one of them decides to defend you.





Realistically, you don't have to make friends with all the black girls at school that hate you. I think that for you to assume that all of them hate you is a bit much.





There is insecurity on both parts. You are ostracized because you are not dark enough and they feel threatened because the ';ideal'; standard of beauty is not something they fall into easily.





I wonder what part of the country you are in because if you are the only mixed child in the area then it sounds like the place itself could use some updating to reflect the rest of America.





Confidence is going to get you through high school. Be comfortable with yourself. They should be getting to know you, if they are too immature to allow their self hate to be critical of you then find someone else to befriend. It doesn’t matter if you are friends with someone are not, if they are jealous of you they are going to be overly critical of you.





One more thing, if you are going to befriend them, don’t go around saying that you have good hair. The texture is “more acceptable” according to the “ideal” European standards of beauty.





You need to educate yourself on both parts of your history if you are to understand this issue for what it really is. It didn’t start with you and it won’t end with you, but at least you can understand the ignorance of the people throwing hurtful remarks at you, and hope that they will enlighten themselves one day or share your information with them.





Enjoy high school for what its worth. Make friends because the people have something in common with you or there is something interesting about them, not because you want them to stop teasing you, especially if they are spiteful.





Oh, the best way to get them to stop being mean to you...is to ignore them. If they say something to you ignore them. If they get in your face tell a teacher. If they are as dumb as they sound they will get suspended not you. Evolve...People come in different forms, you don't have to accept but you have to respectHow can I make friends with black girls? %26gt;.%26lt;?
well thats deffinitelly dificult situation.im in highschool too but i have friends of all colours,im white tho.my best friend are black and puertorican,i think in your case they are just jeleaous cuz one of your parents is white and the other is black.im not sure they like seein white girls dating black boys(im talking about your parents now).u shouldn't try to be nice or anything,just try to ignore or tell someone.try to make friends wit those who like u,whites,latin idn...
Hey. How are you??? My mother and you are the same, except when she was being hated on by black girls she didn't let them mess with here.


She said to herself,


(';If they're not gonna like me then they are gonna fear me';!!!)


Now all the women that used to try and make her life hell, bleach their skin and wanna be like her too...\ Just don't tolerate no nonsense!!!
I got bullies to leave me alone by acting bat-**** crazy to the point that they were afraid of me. But I'm good at playing with people psychologically like that.





Alternatively, just ignore them and don't react to anything they do. They'll leave you alone.
You're not the only one. This seems to be a re-occuring theme with light-skinned girls everywhere (I went threw during school too). But don't let your bad experience with a few jealous individuals ruin your chance for making true friends because there are good black girls out there who will love you for who you are ;)
Well if what you say is true why would you want to be friends with people that dont respect you? Chin up and remember you are half black don't start anyself hate or hating within the race we have enough of that.
Hang out with white girls, instead.
I personally think you want to be friends with the wrong blacks girls. The girls your describing are mean and violent. I have sad news for you they won't stop teasing you unless you really stand up for yourself. The next time the want to bully you ask them what the reason is,why the are bullying you?Look for your inner beauty maybe students of other races will want to be your friends but that's good too. Being a multicultural group is cooler these day then being just in clique with one culture. I mean I'm black girl and most of my friends are biracial. Please don't feel all black girls are like that.
Act Ghetto.








2 words, Now that wasnt a difficult question to answer, Ha