K its not like a crazy crush but i do like her.i would like to ask her out so i could really get to know her better and for her to get to know me better. Her and i are in the same circle of friends. One of the reasons i like her is becuase shes not super super girly and i dont think she would go for some really really corny idea.also like all crushes i am a little afraid of rejection becuase it would kinda mess things up with me becuase our circle of friends are all pretty close so it couldnt be a totaly public rejection cuz it'd be weird with all my friends...girls help me put here please cuz im pretty confused on what to do.by the way im a rising eith grader. just lookin for the right way to do this. thanks for helpingI like this girl whos my one of my friends what should i do,and more importantly how should i do it?
get your group of friends and go to the movies. make sure to sit next to her. during the movie gradually grab for her hand and she'll get the hint and probably cuddle with you. if she rejects holding your hand then just back away and apologize saying that you like her and that you would really like to hang out again just the two of you guys or something really cute. girls LOVE when guys say cute things. you'll do fine. go get her. you deserve her =]I like this girl whos my one of my friends what should i do,and more importantly how should i do it?
Hey just follow these tips, One of the toughest things a man can do is attempt to get a date. Many men struggle with this from the moment they enter puberty up until they are married.
If you are a man that has been in the dating arena unsuccessfully for a while, then you may be thinking women are not interested in you because of your social status, insecurities, or looks. The truth is that it does not always matter what you have. It matters who you are and how you portray yourself.
With the right technique, any man can pick up nearly any girl he wants. All you need to do is believe in yourself enough to follow these simple steps.
Always leave home well-groomed. While, you do not have to be the best-looking man on the block, it does help if you look like you care about your appearance.
Wear nice, clean clothes and cologne when you go out. Remember that while you are single right now, first impressions mean everything. Dress to impress her, whoever she may be.
If you have been wearing the same pants since 1982, buy some new ones! You want to show her that you are ready for any situation the moment it arises, even if it is just asking her out.
You might be asking yourself if you are just running to the grocery store why you need to wear your best clothes. The answer is simple. You never know when you are going to meet a girl you might be interested in dating.
If you find her in the ten items or less line, and you are holding a 12-pack of beer, some corn nuts, and you have on your patented ';plumber'; sweatpants, how interested do you think she is going to be?
Think about what you are going to say before you say it. No matter what female you approach, you will find there will be one universal truth about them all. All women like to be complimented.
Flattery will get you much further than cynical and rude behavior. You might think girls like bad boys and this may be true. However, if a girl likes a bad boy, that bad boy is still nice to her.
Have a general idea of what you want to say. If you know the girl well, comment on something you know she likes to do or likes about herself and go from there.
If you do not know the girl and you want to get to know her, try making a joke or asking her for help when you are making a decision. For instance, if you are in a grocery store, ask for help in picking out a certain brand or a type of produce. Women love to rescue that adorably helpless man in an everyday situation.
Use things like this to your advantage. No matter what, remember that what you say initially will help to make or break your chances.
Never be afraid to ask for what you want. If you want to ask a girl out but you do not feel you know her well enough, test the waters and ask for her phone number.
If she likes your approach, she will give you hers or ask for yours. If she gives you her number, call her. You can almost guarantee if this happens that it will be possible to get a date with her. However, use the phone number to your advantage at least once.
When you call to ask her out be polite and funny. Be charming! Try to have an idea of what you want to say when she picks up the phone. Being prepared will help make the presentation better and her decision to go on a date with you much easier.
Have a Plan of Action. If you know the girl, it is best to plan the first date around her interests.
If she is a chef, you might offer to take her out for a gourmet meal that she does not have to cook! If she likes the outdoors, you might suggest a picnic on the beach. Whatever you plan does not really matter as long as you have her interests in mind.
You might want to test the waters by asking her what her dream date would be like. If you can make her dream date happen, consider asking her if she would like to go on that date with you!
Of course, you could always surprise her with the date of a lifetime. By doing so, you are sure to give her one date she will never forget.
Only make promises you can keep. The most important thing is that you fulfill any promises you make. Be yourself and have a good time with her.
Women like men who are comfortable with themselves. Just be honest and up-front and you will see how easy asking her out can be. In fact, if you continue this trend, you may even get more than one date out of the deal.
Asking women out is a breeze when following these tips. In fact, women are usually just as nervous in these moments as men are. Go easy, be honest, and have fun and she is sure to return the favor tenfold!
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ask her out. say: i like you, want to go bowling or something?
stop thinking, start acting. you'll never know until you live.
Drew,
look just get her to talk to u privatly for a moment and tell her how u feel them when u tell her wat u think is enough then start talking about love for a few minutes then ask her out.
Do it.
I've done it a few times myself and i never got rejected.
if u get rejected then u either messed up around where u talk about love or she doesn't have feelings for u
Then ask her out. Since you two are in the same circle of friends, i assume you already know a few things about her, such as her likes and dislikes. Then you can draw from that and think of a suitable place just for the two of you to get together and just have fun together without interruptions from friends. Your friends can also help you give the hint if they know you like her. Then once you've gone past the getting to know each other stage, you can work from that. After a few get-togethers I'm sure you'll be work out whether she likes you too, or not. Good luck! :)
oh my god don't bring her bowling stupid she would probably think ur weird... i know as a girl i wouldn't want to go bowling..
say:: hey i think we should really try being a little bit more than friend hey we should go to the movies.. because you are beautiful and if you don't want to i hope this doesn't ruine our friendship....grab her hand and if it feels right kiss her you dont want her to dump you so be affectionate.. ask her out on another date kiss her lips and say wow i've never felt so in love
if she says yes buy her a ticket for the movie and one just one red rose
idk talk to her more?
ask her doyou wat to be boyfriend and girlfiend and friends and if she says yes your luck
Ok I am just went through the SAME thing. Turned out we BOTH really like eachother but we never did anything, so because I like others come from expeirience, TELL HER, you will most likely be surprised.
And if you don't and you both find out later on that you both felt the same way it will bite you in the but...HARD! Like it did me. I lost my chance, don't lose your's!
I know you might feel weird dating one of your best friends but just ask her out it ain't a big deal
Just Flirt with her
or tell her
take it slow and kindly suggest the change in relationship, dont freak her out, she sounds nice
i am taking that your in 8th grade.. ask her how she feels about you..if she would condiser you being more than a friend.. and go from there
Ok this is a little tough. Since shes your friend you've done the first step: Break the Contact Barrier. First you've got to know her REALLY well and for a long time. Now when you say your gonna do it you can NOT give up your nerve. Now start a casual convesation and get her alone. This is the hard part. Dont give up your nerve now. Talk to her about normal things that you do daily. Than you can just pop the question ';So do you like someone?'; or something LESS obvious than that LOL! And if she says yes and shes single you might be in luck. Ask who. If she says she wont tell you try to get some hints like Intiatals and first letter of the name. If they arent just back off. Than say ok. Now there are two things you can do. First is say is it me? and she might say yes or who do you like? If she says yes or asks you say I like you. Than shell admit and valla. The second way is to say can I tell you something? Than lean in and kiss her. I would go with choice 1.
Now all I can say is GOOD LUCK!
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