Hey, i know this sounds pretty ****** up.....but yeah heres how it goes, one of my friends who i consider to be one of my best friends who ive known for almost 4 years has always talked about how he loves his gf, how he misses her when shes not there, how he wish he could see her right now, and so on, even talking about how hes going to marry her....now i recently met her, maybe i dunno a week or so ago. And im already starting to feel chemistry between us, like BIG TIME, it started like 3 days ago, now its getting bad, talking about how we like eahcother, saying ohhh your soo pretty, or she says ohh your so handsome with your muscles!!! and what not....so we flirt back in forth, now ive even gotten a kiss from her, yeah it gets worse, ive almost had sex with her, if it wasnt for her having to go home right away because she just realized it was midnight, i probably woulda went through with it, i mean shes very attractive, and i have started to develop feelings for her, we both really like eachother im always saying how cute she looks, and how i love features on her body, like i dunno her hair or something, shes 15 and im 17, and my best friend is 17 the guy dating her, who loves her so dearly =/ now im thinking MAN this is really ****** up???? but i cant stop thinking about her, she and i have talked about this, but we still like to talk with eachother and flirt, its getting REALLY out of control, what do i do, if my friend finds out, our friendship will be over, and it will no doubt get violent, ugh i am disgusted, it feels so right but yet so wrong =/Question on cheating with my best friends girl friend?? (serious answers only)?
You're absolutely right... it is wrong. Just think about it... if she can cheat on her boyfriend with you; why wouldn't she cheat on you when she meets another guy with huge muscles?.... Your chemistry is obviously only physical beauty and if I were you, I would try to stay away from her because you will get hurt physically and emotionally.
If you go through with this physical attraction, your best friend will eventually find out and he will kick your *ss. You go on to have a relationship with this girl and you will ALWAYS be suspicious and jealous when she flirts with other guys. You will suspect she likes the guy with big muscles that she is flirting with鈥?
I am telling you that you will only get hurt, you deserve better than a cheating girl that will only break your heart鈥?and not to mention you will lose your best friend and........ your looks......... it sounds like when your best friends out, he's going to rearrange your face.
Matthew 26:41
';Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.';
: o )Question on cheating with my best friends girl friend?? (serious answers only)?
your not his friend your a snake, your one of those people who use others to get what you want. If you was a friend you would tell him and brake it off with the girl, but i can bet my Car and its a nice car that you wont because you are a snake.
Ask her if she loves her boyfriend.
If she says yes,
then tell her to act like it.
Ask yourself if you truly love her,
if the answer is yes, you will be able to wait for her.
Friendship is so important..
Dont do it man......you'll regret it for a long time, the girl has to drop your best friend before you do anything, she cant have the cake and eat it too, and neither can you, its morally wrong.
Mate, so you're going to throw away your friendship with your best mate for a girl you've known for a few days?? Thats ******. You'll regret it if you go any further.
Chemistry is such a heady rush, but it won't last and you will lose both the girl and your best friend. Is it really worth it?
you might seem its right being with her
but he will find out and your friendship and probably you and her will be ova
so just finish your m8s girl and your relationship now
youve known your m8 for so much longer
DUDE don't be a douche leave her a lone
do not do it if your a true friend you will leave it alone
yea your right what u have done is really really wrong.
step back and see what you can do if this goes any further.
Best friends are for life, cheap girls are just temporary.....
If you REALLY like her then tell her ';dump your bf and we'll go out.'; but make sure you give it like a couple of weeks or so at least until her ex can deal with it.
IF it was MY best friend, then I'd tell her to back off, no matter how fit she was.
If she'll do this to your best friend then she'll probably do it to you if you were seeing her too.
little tip leave it be yh sure if u and her feel things for each other u should just leave it im canny in the same situation and its bad
it hurts me knowing i can't see my gfs best mate whos a lad in the same way coz he has feelings for her and she has had feelings for each other since high school and when ur in a serious relanship its bad yh
if they have been toghter only about 4 month then tell him how u feel and talk it out with ur mate or he will rip ur head off later on yh :)
so leave it be and let him be happy
You need to rise above it and stop. Ask yourself seriously-- is the attraction the fact that she is your best friend's girlfriend, and therefore supposed to be totally off- limits? Lots of guys are attracted to their friends' girlfriends and wives, and its rarely anything more than the 'grass is greener', unattainable factor. You will meet other pretty girls, but friendships are hard to come by. And I can tell you that you won't make friendships in college like the ones you make in high school.
She wants to have sex already? Shes fifteen.. and who do u like better, some girl u just met, or your best friend? Its wrong and u know that. Yes, it could get very violent. That girl is just flirting w/ you because she wants two guys. she doesnt care anything about you. Dont u see that? Shes fifteen and all she wants to do with another boyfriend is show off. You know how u guys have 'trophy girls'? well to girls its technically the same thing. Shes gonna hav told all her little friends and then evantually your 'best friend' is gona hear about it. I know you think you guys hav 'chemistry', but she appearently has chemistry for your best friend to. I know you want to have sex, but do that with someone else, shes to young. Its your BEST FRIEND. You know the right choice. So if you want to do the right thing, avaoid her. Find someone your own age. And especially not your best friends girlfriend.
It feels wrong because it is.
Your natural urge is to keep her and lose him. But this is wrong in this context. He is your friend, you are not his friend-or else you would have immediately told him that she made a move on you and is not to be trusted. But you didn't do that-you almost had sex with her (by the way-she's too young to be having sex with you or anyone).
The pain of losing your friend will be a drop in the bucket compared to the guilt you feel now.
You've already betrayed your friend with your inability to control yourself for his sake.
And as for her-she betrayed her boyfriend.
If you lose your friend and get her as a girlfriend-do you think she'll remain with you? She already betrayed her boyfriend-what makes you think she won't betray you?
Both of you did wrong. I feel sorry for your friend, but not you or her.
You need to tell him what happened. He may well beat the living crap out of you-but you'll have it coming-trust me.
After you've told him-you need to re-evaluate the true meaning of friendship.
I hope you'll learn from this experience.
this is a serious answer....
you shouldve thought bout ur friendship b4 u fckd up!!!...i thought this was a serious msg and then i scroll down and see that shes 15 and ur 17!!!!...
dude at that age...all da chicks pimp themselves up..u couldve gone for any...but u chose ur best friends gf...
u did the crime...so do da time...if u were my friend, honestly, id never speak to u or the girl again...
dont u know its BROS b4 HOES!!!!...
tbh you really need to control this situation, you'll most definatly lose your friend for what? a fling maybe?? it's just lust. you need to end this before it's too late. Good Luck
its one thing to flirt but I would tell you not to go farther you'll end up messing up your friendship and since you're all still in high school you'll all have to deal with the fallout for a long time plus chances are you and her wouldn't stay together long ad then you would lose both the girl and your friends
if they were to break up then you could try but if they did I would wait a while and then ask him if he would mind you and her going out that way you and he could still be friends
best of luck though I know its hard but try and keep it at flirting and let her know you're really good friends with the guy
i truly can empathize with ur dilemma. LOVE is a wonderful feeling but when it happens at a wrong time, it gets quite complicated. you and the girl have to talk SERIOUSLY, the ball is really at the girl's field -- she has to make the decision whether to leave his bf (ur friend) or just keep the inuendos between u and her a secret ... SECRETS are awful, so i suggest that the 2 of u come out clean. ask her abt her feelings towards her bf and have her make the decision, goodluck!
Well with her being 15 and your friend being 17 i really dont think marriage will happen at that age you fall in love with anything that will touch your peter. So your friend will get over it and move on, you can get yours and then she can grow into the whore that she will be and wants to be. She is probably just a tease though and neither of you will ever have sex with her
Well obviously the girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend so think if youall got together what would stop her from cheating on you? I would say don't do it because of your friend if he's really a good friend they are hard to come by and no p!**y is worth losing that! Also remember what goes around comes around!
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