Monday, August 16, 2010

How can i get more friends/girl friends?

im 14 and in 8 grade. ive been realy emo for the last few years but now im finally alot happier and i feel alot more social but i hav pretty bad social skills. i hav sum Friends but not alot and even they say im boring. alot of girls no who i am but never talk to me anymore. they would talk to me all the time last year tho now theres about 10 that talk to me and i no they probly wouldnt want to go out with me. ive had 4 girl friends in my life and they hav all dumped me with in a month. is it to late for me to make more friends. i hav no idea how to start a conversation and im rely shy but after standing around a group of people for about 10 miniuts i finaly think of something to say. the only things im rely into is japanese music and climbing/jumping off stuffHow can i get more friends/girl friends?
Join a club at your school and maybe even an after school activity like indoor rock climbing! Do stuff your interested in and you will find people with your interests. Also, Pearl had a good answer!How can i get more friends/girl friends?
just ask them stuff about themselves and then listen, you dont have to do all the talking, let them do it
hahaha, ok, there is your problem ';the only things im rely into is japanese music and climbing/jumping off stuff'; when your around people try to keep that to yourself just go with the flow, I'm not saying change yourself, but keep that kind of stuff a minimum when talking to people. %26amp; trust me freshmen year of high school is so much easier, you will find so many people like you, so you just hold in there, oh and try being more out going. Do some crazy stuff and talk to random people, act as if you just don't give a **** about what people think and you have friends in no time. goood luck

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