Monday, August 16, 2010

Is it right to take my friends girl?

Alright i went over my friends house just to have a good time.Well this new girl came into his neighborhood about a week or 2.since then they started going out and my friend is really happy with her.Now when i went over she started flirting with me and my friend didnt really care(first girlfriend for my friend).Me and her became really good friends and we talk 24/7 and she tells me how much better looking,nicer,and i know how to talk to a girl.The reason she doesnt really like him is because he makes fun of her whenever something funny happens.So it right to take my friends girlfriend away because she told me she would break up with him and wait a few days and ask me outIs it right to take my friends girl?
dude don't do it!


i kinda did it once, regret it to this day!


my buddy supringly didn't hate me and we're still best friends, mainly cause he's a better person than me...


DON'T DO IT!


and how long b4 she finds someone who's nicer, better looking, etc than you, if u know what i meanIs it right to take my friends girl?
not to be mean, but she sounds like she's playing you, bad.


you don't need a girl like her!


There's plenty of other girls in the world! Go for themm,


not her!
Well, if you really feel like you and this girl are meant to be, and you're not just interested in her looks, then who is your friend to stand in your way? Fate and destiny are fate and destiny, and if you're destined to be with her, go for it~





But, this being his first girlfriend, this could get messy. After all, the first cut is the deepest (Please don't anyone sue me) But if he's making fun of her and stuff, that just isn't cool.





This is so much like the whole Kathy dilemma on ';Friends';. It would really help you to watch those episodes (No, I'm not joking, seriously watch them)





These episodes are on Season 4 and are:


';The One With Joey's New Girlfriend';


';The One With The Dirty Girl';


';The One Where Chandler Crosses The Line';


';The One With Chandler In A Box';





Hope I helped ^^
NO!!! of course its not right! theres a name for girls like her...
Talk to your guy friend first about this. If he's not okay with it, which I'm pretty sure he's not, then just steal her anyway. I think she likes you more or if you're really rich, she just wants your money. If all else fails, use this- http://www.fileden.com/files/2009/3/10/2鈥?/a>
you say she is mature yet she tells you your better looking and nicer than her current bf..? well that isnt really a sign of maturity - unless you are like 12.. which perhaps she may very well be - i dont know as you didnt say.





if you care about yoru friend and value the relationship you have wth your mate then no dont 'take' his gf.. women will comwe and go from yrou life till you decide to get married qan dhave kids,.. yoru mates will be there forever (if they are real mates)





so just stay friends with her for now.. if she doesnt like yoru friend cos he is nasty to her she should break up with him.. if she wants to go out with you and vise versa then give a decent amount of time - just remain friends for a while - like 6 weeks .. perhaps your friend will be devistated if she leaves him and need you to comfort him?





put yorelf in his shoes and think how it would make you feell.. pretty unloved and uncared for !
Well, if its his first girlfriend then..thats really gonna be a slap in the face..his best friend taking his girlfriend?..nu uh...at least dont be secretive about it...talk to him...tell him whats up, dont leave your buddy in the dark...but i would think long and hard about how much you really like this girl and if its worth it..because worse case scenario your friend wont want to speak to you for a bit..but when this girl starts saying that her boyfriend makes fun of her and isnt as good looking as you, stick up for him..DO NOT side with her...hes your friend..you owe him that much..dont be a prick, because you know you would want him to do the same for you...its shitty to know a girl thinks those things about you...and even worse to know your ';best friend'; laughed about it with her...so yeah..just talk to him!!!
A true friend would never ask this question. If you are really his friend than you should know that this is a line that is never to be crossed, if you do, be prepared to lose his friendship forever. Any girl who would flirt with you, then talk to you privately 24/7 bashing your friend and telling you how she would rather be with you is a waste of time and nothing but trouble. She will ditch you in a heartbeat for the next guy who shows her a little bit of interest. Tell your friend the truth about her and move on.
you should stay clear of your friends girlfriend as you risk loosing your friend tell her to talk to your friend not you and tell him that she doesn't like to be called names if she does break up with him then stay clear of her for a while until things settle with your friend then ask him how he would feel if you asked her out if he is ok with it then go ahead if not is she really worth loosing your friendship with him over


she isn't thinking about how it will affect you and your friend she is thinking of herself which shows a sign of immaturity
well dont do anything until she breaks up with him. i think you need to talk to your friend as soon as she asks you out...... but if he is fine with it then go for it...... if you really like eachother...

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