First of all, I'm was quiet shy and it's going better now. I can can hang out with guys and such, but since a few days ago, a girl is talking to me. A few days I thought she loved me ^^;, but now I think she just wanna be friends. :) My problem is now, I always give the wrong answers and can't stay relaxed. Also, I really can't look into her eyes. I try it sometimes, but then I face away, cuz I can't stand the heat or something. Can somebody tell me what to do? I'm a boy btw.
Thx if this gets answered ^^How to get friends with her?
mentally feel that your superior to her when your around her (it will help you mentally not be stressed around her)
then when you get to a state where you dont f*ck up or act stupid around her, start talking to her casually.
continue casual talk till you get to level where you feel little conversations with her wont look suspicious.
if things go well and you have some interest in common. start talking about it with her (with this, never overdo it, or she'll lose interest in talking to you)
if youre lucky she'll start talking to you more and more and become a friend.
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now is the part that you are too shy to ask but i'll answer it anyways for you:
start talking to her more and more about other common things as well. if youre lucky you'll become a decent level of friend enough to ask her out.
while asking out, dont make it extravagant and risk embarassment. go to a secluded place and ask calmly.
if she says yes.... you'll be a happy man.
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